Tags: relationships, affairs, why husbands leave their wives
We have already accepted the fact the men loves company. The more the merrier, so they say. When it comes to women, you just add but you should never ever subtract. A philandering old fart would tell his protťgť to paint the town red with his hearts content but at the end of the day, no matter how late it is, he should go home and be with his wife.
We have this notion that husbands never ever leave their wives. Unfortunately, times have changed. Men left and right packs their bags and head for the door going to a new bedroom. The sanctity of marriage has lost it integrity because men never seem to value it.
But does it primarily mean that when a husband leaves his wife, he initially becomes the villain? Villain or victim here are some reasons why husbands leave their wives. The husband is not the only one capable of philandering. Yes, wives can do it. Wives can cheat on their husbands.
This is the main reason why husbands leave their wives. Nothing can stab and trample a manís being than finding out he has been cheated upon. When a wife is caught cheating by his husband the possibility of reconciliation can be very slim but when a man is caught cheating by his woman, sometimes reconciliation is not an issue because itís sure to happen.
Another reason why husbands leave their wives is too much pressure and stress at home. Is it too much to ask for a man to go home in a peaceful and pleasant home after a hard days work? This is the sentiment of a husband who is constantly hammered by stress at home.
Constant pressure and stress covers a wide range of factors. Nagging is one factor, everybody men in this planet hates the idea of nagging. Itís noisy, itís annoying, itís degrading and it doesnít have a point. Menís abhorrence with nagging is so intense that just a thought of it is deafening.
Another factor of pressure and stress is having a lazy and indolent wife who cannot straighten out the house and doesnít know how to look after the children. Every husband despise going home in a messy muddled of objects and untidy looking children with no oral hygiene and toilet training at the age five.
Another factor is having a clingy and needy partner, who doesnít know how to talk to people or socialize. Another is having a materialistic significant other who doesnít know how to handle the family money. Further factor is having an alcoholic partner or any other form of addiction for that matter.
Another is having an innately selfish other half who considers nobody but herself. Usually a man doesnít leave his woman with just a single factor but a combination of three or all factors all together in a very prolonged state. So if youíre a nagging, over bearing wife who doesnít know how to run a house and spends all your life saving on alcohol or drugs for more than five years then donít be surprise if your husband will find another house to sleep in, this is one reason why husbands leave their wives.
Another reason to consider why husbands leave their wives is because he was forced to marry her in the first place. And lastly, another reason why husbands leave their wives is because he finally decided to come out of the closet and be his true self- a man loving gay person.
Whatever the reason may be, just learn from experience because some reasons are just not under your control.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Ruth recently published an easy to follow course on how to get your cheating spouse back. Click here to get more info about Winning Your Man Back From Infidelity.
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