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Tags: relationships, affairs, why women cheat on their husbands
 “Love is patient, love is kind…” nothing epitomizes this more than a woman’s love. Perhaps most men would agree with me when I say nothing could compare to a woman’s way of expressing affection. It’s pure, unconditional, lavish, and sacrificial. A woman would go through hell and back for the man she loves. For certain, a man who has captured a woman’s heart, has captured a gem more precious than life itself. Having said this, I guess it’s safe to say that a man who has a woman beside him is a “made” man, he can now relax on the hammock, while his woman waits for him - NOT.
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First off, let me tell you something, your woman is not a saint, she is capable of anger, revenge, boredom and irrationality. She has emotional needs from you, and when she doesn’t get these needs, there will be consequences. I am not saying this as a threat or in the form of an ultimatum; I am saying this basing from the “Cause- and- Effect- Law- of- the- Universe.” If you neglected, hurt, or treated your wife unfairly, there is chance that your wife cheated on you, or is cheating on you.
Even if women cannot top men on the cheating scale, still, it is a fact that a wife is capable of cheating on her husband. According to the latest survey, 14% of married women cheated on their husbands, and if you are one of those chauvinistic, cocky, cheapskate husbands, there is an 85% probability that your wife is one of those 14%.
Why women cheat depends on several factors. If you’re a wise man, you would take note of this, and internalize the reasons why women cheat on their husbands.
Reason number 1- You welcomed infidelity in your marriage.
Don’t you think this is a sensible reason? You were the one who welcomed it in the first place. But seriously, the top reason why women cheat is because their husband’s cheated on them first. Call it revenge, call it getting even, call it whatever you want, your woman is not a saint. She can be as evil and manipulative as you can, so don’t provoke her.
Reason number 2- Neglect and ingratitude. In case you forget, being a wife doesn’t only include being a “wife,” it includes being a housekeeper, a baby- sitter, a driver, a grocery shopper, a cook, an errand runner, and many others. Usually, your woman foresees this when she decided to be your wife, and she gladly do all those mundane tasks for you. All she requires in return is a little appreciation every now and then. Showing a little gratitude will prevent her from seeking attention somewhere else.
Reason number 3- Emotional abandonment. Women are emotional beings, this include your wife, you have to accept this. She is basing your relationship according to the emotional connection you have with each other. So, if you withdraw your emotions, or trivializes hers, she will seek emotional acceptance from others.
Reason number 4- Bedroom factors. This includes unfulfilling sex to boredom. Just like you, your wife wants to experience that mind-blowing sex. And just like you, if she feels that there’s no connection in the bedroom anymore, she becomes vulnerable to outside temptations.
Reason number 5- Uncared for. Every woman yearns to be pampered and be taken cared- of. If you missed being a good provider, better man-up or else she’ll look for someone man enough to take care of her.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Ruth recently published an easy to follow course on how to get your cheating spouse back. Click here to get more info about Winning Your Man Back From Infidelity.
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