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5 Reasons Why Men Leave
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Ok this question I'm going to
ask the men in the room.
"Why do men leave their
loved ones?"
I mean it is a sound question
to ask isn't it.
You've been in a relationship
for many years now.
You obviously love her, and
yet despite that you left her.
Why?
Probably most of you won't be
able to explain it too clearly.
That's understandable. After all
it just seems so - well illogical.
And for women (and men who
have had their partners leave
them) it is often a devastating
thing to happen.
And they will ask the same
question I did:
"Why did he leave?"
The answer to that are
numerous and some may
even be surprising.
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1. A psychological need
Believe it or not, men are
vulnerable, despite what
they say or how they act.
They also want to be loved,
touched, and taken cared
of but since they are men,
they can't just ask since
they will be branded a wuss.
Men and their ego.
But because of that they want
their partners to give them that
nurturing.
They leave because of that need.
But there have been counters
that the reason men leave is
not because they want to get
the nurturing they didn't get
with their partners but
because they are
ashamed because
they are that needy
for it.
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2. Ghost of the past
Do you remember your first
relationship, your first love?
I'm sure you do and I'm sure
you get dreamy eyed when
you remember it.
Men are like that too. They
cling to the ghost of their
past relationships.
For them, their old love is the
ideal person and that she is
one of a kind.
Basically you are being
compared to history, and
as we all know history can
be as grand as it can be
embellished.
How can you compare to a
perfect monument?
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3. The hunter re-awakens
Men are hunters. They crave
adventure and excitement.
That's why they have no
problem waking up early in
the morning and wade in
water for hours under
freezing conditions to
hunt or fish.
They see a relationship as
nothing more than a prison.
And guess who the warden
is for them?
They see you as not being
a challenge simply because
you've always been there,
so they seek excitement
elsewhere.
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4. Commitment?
What commitment?
A man is committed when he
does it because of who he is.
BUT, if he's in a relationship
simply out of feelings of
obligation, feelings of guilt,
or because of a false sense
of self-esteem, no real
commitment is possible.
Why should he commit when
he feels that he is not into
the relationship of his own
free will?
At the same time they can
also leave because they
feel they can't satisfy you.
Let's face it, some women
are just insatiable (in more
ways than one) - no matter
how hard the man tries.
If they don't get acknowledged
that they did good they may
just pack up and leave.
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5. Losing his identity
Ladies, let's face it. Men are
not ongoing projects that you
can just fix and it will be perfect.
They resent being "fixed" so
to speak (and it does have a
bad connotation if you think
about it).
A man who changes because
of himself AND because of
the relationship will be strong.
A man who changes simply
to accommodate the relationship
will be weaker.
You are not suppose to change
your partner to satisfy your
own cravings.
They are not toys so it makes
them feel bad and neglected
when you do treat them that
way.
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And don't forget to put love
into the equation.
Men need to be looked up to,
valued, respected and
recognized.
Especially by the woman he's
with.
Call it ego or whatever but that
is what men want.
My step-by-step guide can
help you claim your man
exclusively.
You can do it here.
Get the love that is overflowing
with respect and openness
along with a togetherness
that is bursting with intimacy
and iron-clad exclusivity.
To your relationship,
Ruth Purple
P.S. Visit my blog at http://www.relazine.com, where I share more stuff about love and relationships. Drop by soon.
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