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Break Up But Do It With Style
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So you've broken up with your boyfriend.
It hurts and it's never easy when that kind
of thing happens.
There are a lot of things that you can do
as a result of this and the consequence
of which can either make you an angel
or a devil.
What do I mean by that?
I mean you can go out and go wild because
after all you're single again and maybe get
a little bit of revenge but will that make you
feel any better in the morning?
It won't and others have found that out to
their regret.
So how can you become a class act when
it comes to breaking up?
Well first of all whatever the reason you
broke up with him it's not a reason to bad
mouth him.
Don't say things like "he's an asshole" or
that "he's a cold-hearted scum who loves
to cheat with other women."
It may make you feel better but in the end
it may also come to bite you back.
Like they say "what goes around, comes
around."
Karma's a bitch and she will come back to
you hard and you know it.
Just because you're hurting doesn't mean
you need to quickly fill in the void by grabbing
the next guy that comes through the door.
"Rebound" relationships are nothing more
than an emotional and psychological defense
wherein you feel the next guy that sympathizes
with you is the best guy in the world.
While there may be exceptions to the rule,
rebound relationships don't typically last that
long and often hurts the two of you who are
involved.
And it's not fair to the guy who may be sincere
in his feelings for you if you do it just because
you needed to at the time.
You need to move on and you need to let
him move on as well.
If you've broken up then remain broken up.
Don't stalk him because you still have some
sort of attachment to him.
If you've already broken up what do you care
what he does after that.
Why would you be bothered if you see him
with someone else.
And do you really need to keep tabs on
him via Facebook.
Breaking up means one or both of you are
not into the other anymore.
Don't hang around him too much that it prevents
him from finding someone else or you scare
other women from getting close to him.
Just because things didn't work out between
the two of you doesn't mean it won't out with
him and another woman.
Be fair. If he's allowed you to move on then
return the favor and let him move on as well.
And if you broke up because of another man
don't be a sour winner so to speak. It's enough
that you've potentially hurt his feelings by
picking another man over him--don't rub his
face in it by advertising your new guy in front
of your mutual friends.
It hurts him and is not fair to your friends who
shouldn't be made to decide between their
friendship with you and their friendship with
him.
Be happy and let him be happy too. You have
your life to live and so does he.
Doing hurtful things will hurt both of you in
the long run--especially you.
Just take it as it is and do what you need to
do.
And if you want to find out how you can get
the right man for you look below.
Click here to see how.
We all have someone that's meant for us.
It just takes patience to find them.
Ruth Purple
P.S. Check out my blog at: < a href="http://www.relazine.com">http://www.relazine.com
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