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How To Connect And Go The Next Level Up With The ONE
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So you've been going out and
meeting guys.
It's going great, it seems,
but the question you ask
is how to really connect
and bring the relationship
to a whole new level.
At the start you're merely
dating and maybe even
flirting and easy as it may
sound that's not always
the case.
Many things can go wrong
and you may wind up giving
the wrong impression that
can totally ruin it for you.
Look and touch (well almost)
One of the best and easiest
ways to build that good
impression is to connect
with your "target" if you will.
And what can be simpler
than eye-contact and touch.
As human beings that's how
we communicate - other than
with words - so why not use
it to the fullest.
When you look at someone,
don't just look and then look
away after a second.
You're not a spy or stalker
that doesn't want to be
caught looking.
You WANT to be caught looking
because you want to convey
the message that you
are interested in them.
At the same time, by looking
at them you're telling the other
person that you feel confident
about yourself to look.
At the same time touch him
without going overboard.
Huh?
By that I mean it's ok to touch
his arm or shoulder as it is an
indication of interest and comfort.
DON'T have your hands all over
him, no matter how much you
want to.
Eagerness and enthusiasm
is fine as long as you match
his but going overboard just
makes you scary (unless
he's into that kind of thing,
in which case it's your turn
to be scared).
Remember, your goal here
is to make a good impression
so that he will want to take
it to the next level.
And how do you go about
doing that?
As I always recommend
in any relationship:
communication is key.
The only way to know if both
of you want to go to a deeper
relationship is to talk about it.
Thinking about it is fine and
all but if you don't talk about
it, how will the two of you
know if you both want to
move up.
Or how will you know why
he doesn't want to.
What is important is that the
two of you are on the same
page because that's key to
making any relationship
move.
And the thing you need to
remember is that with any
relationship, regardless of
whether it's just about to
start or ongoing - it takes
work, a LOT of work.
All relationships need both
parties to work at it.
And when you do take the
risk - because a relationship
is a risk for everyone - and
go for it don't think of it as
an end rather as a start of
something else.
And please, if you do plan
to take it to the next level
then do GROW UP!
All relationship requires a
certain amount of maturity
to deal with everything that
happens.
You play but you also need
to be serious in order to
make it work.
And more importantly,
whatever the outcome
DO NOT take the other
person for granted.
That is probably the worst
thing that you can do.
Because if you do, you may
just lose the one person you
have been looking for.
Think about it.
He may be the one. And you
want to keep him.
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There's no one cure-all solution
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YOU are the best answer to
what ever ails you.
To a happy relationship,
Ruth Purple
P.S. More tips like the one above can be found in my blog at: http://www.relazine.com
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