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How You Can Cheat and Affair Proof Your Relationship
Yes, it is possible to stop
your relationship from falling
apart...
...Even if you think everything
is too late.
Check out how here.
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But why go through all that
to save your relationship
when you can prevent it
from happening.
They say an ounce of
prevention is better than
a pound of cure.
Heck, it could be a pound
of prevention but it is still
waaaaaaay better than a
pound of cure.
Why suffer waiting for the
cure when it is possible to
take care of it before it does
any major damage to you
and your relationship.
That being said there really
is no 100% way to keep
someone from going astray.
Nor is there a 100% way for
you to know when they're
about to cheat.
However, there are some
things you can (both) do to
help ensure the best choice
for each other - to stay
faithful and loyal to one
another.
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1. Take time for your relationship.
Neglect is one of the things
you should NOT do.
You take time to take care
of your plants right?
You water them, you weed
them and you fertilize them
so they don't die on you.
Well the same can be said
of relationships, be it yours
or anyone else.
If you don't take the time
to give focus on your
relationship it can die.
You need to give it attention
and nurture it so it can
flourish.
Simply make time for one
another.
Make a calendar of "dates"
for the both of you. Go out
together once in a while.
Be creative.
At the same time, encourage
away time from one another
as well.
Now you're looking at me
with that skeptical look.
Away time?
Wouldn't that encourage straying?
Not necessarily. In fact it can
encourage fidelity.
How?
Think back when you were
a kid.
Didn't you do things BECAUSE
you weren't allowed or you
were restrained from doing
them.
Didn't you sneak out to play
with your friends because
your parents forbid you to
do so?
It's human nature to do the
things that we're not allowed
to.
By keeping him on a very
short leash, while you may
think you're preventing him
from straying, you're
actually forcing him to
go for it.
Let him socialize.
Give him slack. You'd be
surprise to see that the
trust you give him will be
returned in kind.
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2. Keep the lines of
communication open
between the both of
you.
And with the technological
developments we have today
you have no reason not to
be able to.
Have regular chat sessions
wherein you talk about
managing your home,
parenting and how the
relationship is going
in general.
When you do talk always
be honest with your partner.
Tell them directly about
your feelings and have
him/her do the same.
It is important to always
know how your partner is
feeling and what things
you can do to make the
relationship more exciting.
Communication is not always
by words alone.
Get physical with your partner.
Touch them in a non-sexual
way - everyday.
Even without saying anything
you are forming a bond with
them.
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More importantly keep your
eyes open.
Put time AND energy into
your relationship.
Be a good partner for your
partner.
Let them know that you
are there for them in any
situation.
And always be positive.
Always think about why
you love your partner.
And for more help on getting
a life that is full of contentment
and bliss with a relationship
based on trust and honesty
look below.
Check here to find out.
To your relationship,
Ruth Purple
P.S. Visit me at my blog: http://www.relazine.com
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