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Is He The One - Finding Your Perfect Match
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Every woman, and I mean
every woman, hopes to catch
the one.
By that I mean finding the one
and only Mr. Right.
After all, nobody wants to
end up being in a relationship
with the wrong guy.
It is because of this reason
that women go through
relationships as if it were
a trial-and-error test.
For some it's a process of
elimination - collect as many
men as possible and then
pick out the good from the
bad - much like picking fruit.
For others, only the perfect
relationship with the perfect
man will do, so much so that
by the time they realize the
futility of it all, every guy has
already been taken and
nobody's left except their
cat.
With all that going on why
even go through all these
problems to find a relationship.
Simply because there comes
a time in your life wherein living
alone just doesn't cut it
anymore - it just feels lonely.
Before you know it, you're
dreaming of waking up in the
morning with that perfect
someone right beside you.
You long for the simple
conversations over a hot
cup of coffee, of tight hugs
and tender kisses, and
maybe even the pitter-
patter of small feet all
over the house - and I'm
not talking about mice.
Then there's growing old
together, with what's left
of your hair.
Of course with such
grandiose plans you
want it to be with
someone special.
Unfortunately, choosing your
partner in this life is a far cry
from shopping for shoes.
With shoes, if it doesn’t fit
you can always go back
and exchange it.
But with a partner, there's
no testing it before you
buy it policy.
It's basically what you see
is what you get, and there's
no return or warranty either.
That being said, even if you
do find "him" how can you
tell if that person is the
ONE for you?
Well that can be easier said
than done.
After all, each of us makes
their own standard as to what
makes the perfect partner.
Some make the mistake of
having a committed relationship
based purely on the physical
aspect.
While physical compatibility
is great to have, it's not the
only criterion, and in fact
many would agree that
it's not the most
important one.
When you feel like you're in
that point of looking for your
Mr. Right ask yourself some
questions.
What are your strengths
and weaknesses?
What are your ambitions in life?
Do you share the same views
and opinions with the potential
Mr. Right?
Do you have common values?
Why do you need to ask
yourself these questions?
It's because at the end of the
day, it’s how you handle each
other’s differences and turn
them into advantages for
your relationship that
matters.
Taking that big step is not
easy, and it's not meant to
be.
Even if you see it in the movies
or hear it from your friends,
there is really no such thing
as a prefect match right off
the bat.
They say you have a soul-mate
but they don't say just how
difficult it is to make things
work.
And the thing is, even after
all that work no relationship
is perfect and no partner is
exactly THE ONE.
Every one of us, including you,
have differences which will
always cause conflict in ANY
relationship.
So to get back to our earlier
question on how you can
tell if he is the right one.
To put it bluntly, there is really
no sure fire way.
It's all comes down to whether
you think he's the one.
I'm not passing the buck or
anything, but think about it,
you know what type of man
fits into your criteria right?
So what other's may say about
knowing whether he's the one,
me included, means nothing
if you yourself doesn't feel
he's the one for you.
But then that's what makes
life fun. If you found him on
the first get go then how boring
this life would be!
Believe it or not, the thrill is
going through the list and
determining whether he's
the one for you or not.
And if you want help I'm willing
to give it to you.
Check it out here.
Let's put it this way, if you feel
all jelly like, weak in the knees,
and drooling, then who
knows, maybe he is the
one.
Take him for a test drive
my dear.
Ruth Purple
P.S. And if you want, visit my blog at: http://www.relazine.com, for more relationship help and tips.
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