 |
Is He The One Finding Your Perfect Match
Is He The One? Finding Your Perfect Match
As the saying goes "there are many fish in
the sea."
Get help in catching the one you want.
Visit here and see how.
*********************************************************************
Every woman, and I mean every woman,
hopes to catch the one.
By that I mean finding the one and only
Mr. Right.
After all, nobody wants to end up being in
a relationship with the wrong guy.
It is because of this reason that women go
through relationships as if it were a trial-and-
error test.
For some it's a process of elimination - collect
as many men as possible and then pick out
the good from the bad - much like picking
fruit.
For others, only the perfect relationship with
the perfect man will do, so much so that by
the time they realize the futility of it all, every
guy has already been taken and nobody's
left except their cat.
With all that going on why even go through
all these problems to find a relationship.
Simply because there comes a time in your
life wherein living alone just doesn't cut it anymore
- it just feels lonely.
Before you know it, you're dreaming of waking
up in the morning with that perfect someone
right beside you.
You long for the simple conversations over
a hot cup of coffee, of tight hugs and tender
kisses, and maybe even the pitter-patter of
small feet all over the house - and I'm not
talking about mice.
Then there's growing old together, with what's
left of your hair.
Of course with such grandiose plans you
want it to be with someone special.
Unfortunately, choosing your partner in this
life is a far cry from shopping for shoes.
With shoes, if it doesn’t fit you can always
go back and exchange it.
But with a partner, there's no testing it before
you buy it policy.
It's basically what you see is what you get,
and there's no return or warranty either.
That being said, even if you do find "him"
how can you tell if that person is the ONE
for you?
Well that can be easier said than done.
After all, each of us makes their own standard
as to what makes the perfect partner.
Some make the mistake of having a committed
relationship based purely on the physical aspect.
While physical compatibility is great to have,
it's not the only criterion, and in fact many
would agree that it's not the most important
one.
When you feel like you're in that point of looking
for your Mr. Right ask yourself some questions.
What are your strengths and weaknesses?
What are your ambitions in life?
Do you share the same views and opinions
with the potential Mr. Right?
Do you have common values?
Why do you need to ask yourself these questions?
It's because at the end of the day, it’s how
you handle each other’s differences and turn
them into advantages for your relationship
that matters.
Taking that big step is not easy, and it's not
meant to be.
Even if you see it in the movies or hear it
from your friends, there is really no such
thing as a prefect match right off the bat.
They say you have a soul-mate but they don't
say just how difficult it is to make things work.
And the thing is, even after all that work no
relationship is perfect and no partner is exactly
THE ONE.
Every one of us, including you, have differences
which will always cause conflict in ANY relationship.
So to get back to our earlier question on how
you can tell if he is the right one.
To put it bluntly, there is really no sure fire
way.
It's all comes down to whether you think he's
the one.
I'm not passing the buck or anything, but think
about it, you know what type of man fits into
your criteria right?
So what other's may say about knowing whether
he's the one, me included, means nothing if
you yourself doesn't feel he's the one for you.
But then that's what makes life fun.
If you found him on the first get go then how
boring this life would be!
Believe it or not, the thrill is going through
the list and determining whether he's the
one for you or not.
And if you want help I'm willing to give it to
you.
Check it out here.
Let's put it this way, if you feel all jelly like,
weak in the knees, and drooling, then who
knows, maybe he is the one.
Take him for a test drive my dear.
Ruth Purple
P.S. And if you want, visit my blog at: http://www.relazine.com, for more relationship help and tips.
_____
Next>>>
|
|
