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Recognizing The Potential Cheater Personality
If you have suffered through
infidelity you're probably
asking why this happened.
You can find out the reasoning
behind the affair by checking
the link below.
Check it out here.
You CAN protect yourself and
your relationship so you can
have your man exclusively.
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From your emails I picked one
that makes for a very interesting
discussion.
This one comes from Elle and
her question has something to
do about men.
That's a good start.
More specifically her question
begs an answer: which type
of men cheat.
Well that's a loaded question
if I say so myself.
"Which type of men cheat?"
I suppose the actual question
is what are the types of
personalities in men that
make them prone to cheating.
OK let's see what type of
personalities are out there.
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*The People Pleaser*
You've seen their type around
I'm sure.
They are the ones who try to
always fit in and be what are
expected of them.
They are the ones who caters
to their partner's demands
regardless of whether it's
reasonable or not.
There's no evaluation
whatsoever.
What makes them potential
cheaters is their "pleasing
pattern."
Once someone triggers this
then they are hooked.
Basically, they are attracted to
people who are controlling.
This is because they feel that
controlling people know what
is best and are happy to lead
the way.
So even if your man loves you,
once someone else triggers
his "pleasing pattern" then
he's hooked.
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*Liars*
And I'm not talking about the
small time "white" liar type
here.
That's nothing.
I'm talking about the really big
liars out there.
And there are two types of
liars: the pathological ones
and the compulsive ones.
A compulsive liar is someone
who lies out of habit. For them,
lying is a normal way of
responding to questions, even
if the truth will not hurt them.
The one you should really look
out for is the pathological liar.
Basically these are men who
lie to get their way.
They have no concern for
others and use lies to
manipulate other people
or the situation.
They are goal oriented and are
typically cunning and self-
centered.
Since they have little regard
or respect for the rights and
feelings of others they have
no problem cheating.
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*The Silent Type*
Whereas the lair is often loud,
the silent type is...well...silent.
Rather, they are the types
who keep their opinions
and emotions to themselves.
They cheat because of these
pent up emotions.
Why?
Because by keeping their
emotions in check they become
unstable.
They are not able to share it
with you so they manifests
it some other way - by cheating.
The frustrating part is you won't
know this until the end when
often it can be too late.
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*They call me a Narcissist*
These are the type of men
who have excessive self-
admiration.
They see themselves as the
center of all the known
universe and hence the
rules do not apply to them.
They lie and exaggerate their
own endowments and
accomplishments so you will
see them as someone that
is of great value and
importance.
They cheat because of their
own self-preoccupation, lack
of empathy, and low self-esteem.
They envy others who they
see as being better or have
it better than them so they
try to "one-up" them.
Cheating is just one way to
boost their fragile ego.
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*And then there's the pig*
Chauvinist pig that is.
More specifically the male
chauvinist pig.
A term used by feminist in
the 1960s, it describes men
who believed that men were
far superior to women and
expressed those opinions
freely.
Because this type of men
sees women as an inferior
species he has no qualms
cheating on them because
for him, they don't count.
This is because he won't
have any feelings of guilt
or remorse about.
And why should you have
one for someone lower
than you.
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One and all these type of male
personalities have the same
common denominator: their
lack of self-esteem.
This psychological and emotional
instability is something that
can take time to change - and
it needs to start from the
guy himself.
But you can deal with these
kinds of personalities.
My step by step guide will show
you how to recognize these
personalities and help you
deal with them so you can
establish a trusting and
loving relationship.
Get your copy here.
Here's to a loving relationship.
Until next time,
Ruth Purple
P.S. Don't forget to visit my blog at: http://www.relazine.com, so you can get free articles on relationship matters. Check it out.
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