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Rekindle The Passion Of Your Love
Relationships are a
wonderful thing.
However, they can also be
a painful experience even
for the best of us.
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You had the fiery passion
when you first started, but
now, after so many years
it seems to have all but
disappeared.
The rope that has bound
you together is now the
worst for wear.
And the scary part is it
may break at any time.
It is possible to re-enforce
the bond that has been
forged between you by
rekindling the passion
that has all but gone
out between the two
of you.
And when I say passion
I don't mean just the the
sex part, although it is an
important aspect of a long
relationship.
No, I am talking about
rekindling the physical as
well as the mental passion
between the two of you.
SO what can you do?
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Rekindle the past
And by that I mean the early
years of you being together.
Pull out those old love letters
that you used to write one
another (and hopefully you
kept some of it at least).
Go through them and
reminisce about the times
when you had fun.
Look at your old photos
as well.
Refresh your memories
about the time when your
passion was like fire and
could burn through
anything.
Rekindle the
communication
Through the years, it's not
surprising for couples to
begin to lose touch with
one another, even while
they live in the same
house and home.
This lack of contact can
result in misunderstandings
or worst.
Talk with your partner.
Let them know what you want
and expect from them and
encourage them to the the
same.
By re-opening the dialogue
between the two of you, you
get to understand what it is
both of you want and need
from each other.
And a little physical connection
won't hurt either.
In fact it can go a long way.
The best part is it doesn't
have to be anything major.
A simple caress every now
and then will suffice as a start.
Hold each other's hand,
cuddle, or give your partner
a passionate kiss when you
separate for the day for work
and another one when you
meet again after work.
Go away.......together
Get out of your regular
schedule. Plan a romantic
get-away for two.
It doesn't have to be an
expensive place.
A simple picnic in the park
can be a special occasion
if done right.
What is important is you
are doing it TOGETHER.
To make it more meaningful
why not skip a day of work
(but only if you can).
It will not only seem like it's
spontaneous but between
the two of you will be that
extra bond of playing hooky
to go out on a date with
one another.
And when you are together
just enjoy each other's
company.
This is the most opportune
time to rekindle your past
and the communication
between the two of you.
And if it comes down to sex
Set a romantic atmosphere.
Lighted scented candles,
a good dinner, some wine
perhaps, a revealing negligee.
There are so many things
that can make your physical
contact a very intimate and
romantic one.
Indulge in foreplay.
Flirt with one another. And
when you get down to it,
do it in a way that maximizes
your intimacy with one another.
And by that I mean no 1-2-3
and your done routine.
It should be prolonged to
get the most out of the
satisfaction.
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Rekindling the passion may
seem difficult and it can be,
specially after a long time
has past.
But the thing you have to
remember is that you
remember them.
It's not like you've forgotten
about being passionate, it's
just that it has taken a back
seat because of your
obligations.
It is possible to get a life
that is full of contentment
and bliss.
A life with a relationship
based on trust and honesty
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Passion is very much alive.
It's up to you to coax it back
to life again.
Until next time,
Ruth Purple
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