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Turning Him Off Is Easier Than You Might Think
Your special man is out there -
you just need to hunt him
down and catch him.
Sometimes easier said than
done.
Get help right here.
So you can say goodbye to
all those frog-prince-wannabes
and say hello to your very own
Prince Charming.
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Remember that movie "How
To Lose A Guy In 10 Days?"
You know that movie starring
Kate Hudson and Matthew
McConaughey where Kate
Hudson's character's goal
is to write about the how you
can lose a guy in 10 days by
actually being in a relationship
and do those things that are
relationship killers.
Obviously seeing as this is
a Hollywood romantic comedy
things don't always go the
way the characters planned.
But what Kate Hudson's
character did can indeed be
relationship killers - being
possessive, interferes with
the guy's poker night, and
*gasp* takes the guy to a
Celine Dion concert instead
of a New York Knicks
basketball game.
And the thing is it may not
even take as long as 10 days.
In fact given the right situation
and actions on your part, you
can turn off your prospective
man in just one date.
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1. Talk but don't go overboard
Having a good conversation
is key to getting to know
one another.
At the same time it helps you
to relax and feel at ease around
one another.
However, sharing "everything,"
especially sharing the wrong
thing is a killer.
Guys do indeed want to know
more about you but not a daily
up to the minute blow by blow
account.
What are you a radio sports
commentator?
Yes you went on summer
vacation but other than telling
him about the fun things you
did, don't tell him what you
ate, with whom etc etc etc.
Guys get the picture already
and the details can just
screw it all up.
More so when you start
talking about ex-boyfriends
or any of your past
relationships.
Please DON'T.
Nothing turns off a guy than
talking about YOUR
relationships.
To be honest he doesn't want
to hear it. He wants to hear
about you, not about your
relationships with other men
that are not him.
Maybe when you are close
and together for a while you
can broach the subject but
during the early stages it's
a no no.
And don't go on talking as
if you were the ticker-tape
for the stock market.
Take a breath of air and let
him talk. Let him tell you
about himself.
And when he does be interested.
There's nothing guys like most
than a girl who's interested in
what they do.
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2. You're not a clown
So don't wear makeup that
makes you look like one.
Or worst yet, wear makeup that
makes you look like one of the
band members of KISS.
No no no no no . . .
At the same time please look
neat, clean and well groomed
at all times, not like you had
a bad hair day all the time
so much that you look like
the bride of Frankenstein.
Personal hygiene is important.
Body order is an instant killer,
and so is bad breath.
You don't want to smell like
you work in a garbage dump
or waste disposal unit.
And if you have hair that
makes you look like the
missing link - shave.
Ok I exaggerate but do shave.
Hair is, like it or not, an instant
turn-off specially if it's in places
where he expects there to be
none.
Also, smell good. I'm not
kidding, even if you don't
have BO, smelling good is
a major turn on.
Something mild and fruity that
will accentuate yourself and
not be too overpowering.
You want his head to spin
because of you, not because
he's getting dizzy from the
industrial strength perfume
you're using.
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3. Just act natural
Yes he's a hunk but don't go
jumping at him.
And stay calm - being nervous
and jittery can make you
speak unnaturally.
Don't sound like you're on a
roller-coaster - one time loud,
another time soft.
And please don't stare.
It's just plain creepy and makes
you look like a stalker.
Yes you can look but not a lot
of times.
Smile. No explanations needed.
And when you laugh, do laugh
at the appropriate moments.
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4. And do be considerate
Especially if he's the one who
asked you out.
It wouldn't hurt to be thankful.
It's just plain wrong to not thank
him for being asked out and
treated out.
And at least offer to pay your
share. Even if he says no, at
least you offered with sincerity.
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And if you want help in finding
"HIM," then have a gander at
what I have in store.
Check here to find out.
Get help determining who
is the perfect match for you
and discover where you can
catch him.
See you soon,
Ruth Purple
P.S. My blog at: http://www.relazine.com, has more tips on relationships. Check it out.
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