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Why Does He Cheat
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Why do men cheat?
That's the inevitable question
that I'm sure has a lot of
women wondering.
So why do men cheat,
especially if they're already
in a relationship with a
person that loves them.
Depends on who you ask.
Many would say that men
cheat simply because of
one reason and one reason
only.
Short and simple it's because
of SEX.
Yes and no.
Yes there is sex involved but
not because of sex in itself.
Let me explain.
Men who cheat because of
sex do so because they
want to experience the
feeling they had when your
relationship was still in its
infancy.
Basically they want to go
back or even prolong the
feeling of the "newness of
sex" that they felt when the
two of you were still starting
out.
At the same time some
would argue that it's because
of biology.
Go back to the time of
the first caveman where a
single misstep can either
land you in the waiting and
hungry mouth of a predator
or have you sink into the
dark ooze of death.
The world being that dangerous
it was no wonder that other
than catching food, men was
also on a quest to propagate
the species because he didn't
know when he could die.
Basically it was his natural
instinct to survive through
the "spreading of his seed"
to ensure that some of it
would manage to survive.
But then there's the counter
that men cheat not because
of sex but because of
emotional dissatisfaction.
Well known marriage
counselor M. Gary Neuman,
in his book "The Truth About
Cheating" stated that about
48% of men said emotional
dissatisfaction as the reason
they cheated.
This is because men have a
need to be appreciated.
They look for and long for
that pat in the back and
the adoration for their
accomplishments.
You can call it "stoking" his
ego and that's the way it is.
And in order to satiate that
ego or that need for attention,
men cheat by looking for
women who will give it to
them.
Then there are those men
who cheat because they
fear intimacy.
Because they fear intimacy
they distance themselves from
their partner by having affairs
with women that they can
NOT have an emotional
involvement with.
I'm not condoning men who
cheat because it's wrong.
And the thing of it is men
know it's wrong.
But don't rest on your laurels
just yet ladies.
We all know that women
cheat and history has
shown that we cheat.
And women cheat for almost
the same reason as men do -
companionship, romance,
and sex.
It's just that men find it harder
NOT to cheat than women do.
So in the end it comes down
to human nature - regardless
of gender we are capable of
cheating - simple as that.
It comes down to how strong
your faith is in your relationship
and in yourself to NOT cheat.
But if you're not sure as to
the reasons why or want to
know more on what you
can do to fight it then
check out my guide.
Take a look at it here.
Uncover more reasons behind
infidelity and win your man
back for the right ones.
To your relationship,
Ruth Purple
P.S. if you want more relationship advise or tips then visit my blog at: http://www.relazine.com
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