It’s no secret that bad habits can hurt one’s marriage. But U.S. Government National Institute of Child Health and Development made a study of more than 160 relationships in Louisville University to back it up. Their study revealed that if you have nasty habits, your partner can never get used to it. The more times you repeat it, the more irritated your partner becomes.
Most husbands and wives view bad habits as lack of respect and this can result to lack of romance or “Deromanticisation.” And “deromanticisation” can trigger a spouse to cheat. This links bad habits to bad divorce.
Often times we get to wonder why it’s so difficult to maintain a peaceful loving relationship. Why it’s hard to keep the fun and frolicking last for even a week. Why it’s impossible to have a month long of harmony in the relationship.
There are times when we get tired of feeling empty in an empty relationship.
This is what happens when we fall into hidden traps. It’s hidden, because we are unaware of the trap. It settles in our subconscious and manifests in our actions.
Here are the hidden relationship traps that you need to be aware of to help save your relationship.
A woman’s love has always been so pure and unconditional. Nothing in this planet can compare with it. It is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, sweet and generous. Every man knows that when a woman falls in love, she will walk on water, climb the highest mountain, cross heaven and hell, no matter how her man acted out, no matter what crazy things her man have done. If a woman falls in love, she will talk to him until there’s no more words left to say, she will encourage him when he feels hopeless, she will cook him warm chicken soup and never leave his side when he’s sick, she will laugh with him when he is happy, and makes it a point to celebrate his success.
Once upon a time, there was a man and a woman. They met and they fell in love. And their love was beautiful. The man was a king when it comes to showing affection and the woman was a queen of generosity, kindness and love… and they lived happily ever after… or so it seems, until reality sets in. The man became busy and the woman stressed out. Things became shaky, and the arguments, frequent. The once happy woman has become a lonely princess, and the once noble man has become an ugly toad.
They say, "happily ever after" only exists in fairly tales.
Holiday season is often an exciting time for lovers- exchanging gifts, going to affairs and parties, and going away for a vacation. But this feel-good atmosphere can sometimes be overwhelmed by the Holiday stress- preparing and cramming for family dinners, shopping, oceans of presents to wrap and crazy schedule to abide. Amid this rumpus, it’s always good for you to set aside some romantic things to do with your loved ones. To have a romantic- filled holiday season, here are some few suggestions that you can do.
Do the twelve days of Christmas countdown. This requires a bit of imagination, but it will be more than worth it.
I just can’t get enough of the Holiday season. Most people I know, especially those who are in a romantic relationship are too excited what to give their romantic partners. Usually women enjoy shopping for presents for their lovers. But for men, well it’s a different story. It’s a grinding moment for them. Most men feel that the next worst thing of not giving any Christmas gift is giving the wrong gift. You see, most women believe in the “right gift, right man” notion. This belief strings from the fact that if men pay attention and be little sensitive to their partner, the way women are to their lovers, maybe they will be able to give the right present.
Ahhhh…. I love Christmas season- its smell, its sounds and its sights. And everything just gets better if you are in love! Now that it’s the time of the year, you can’t help but get excited on what to give your guy this Holiday season. If you want to surprise him with the best Christmas gift ever, then you better start saving now, you have twenty- four days to window shop for the best Christmas gift for him. But if you have some extra cash stashed away, it’s best that you do your Holiday shopping now to avoid the Holiday rush.
The beliefs and rules you live in life are a huge factor on how to save your relationship. If you think that your love-affair is a huge failure because you and your partner are not following certain "rules", then it’s time to break that belief. Here are some love tips that can be hazardous to your love-life if followed by heart.
Relationship Advice #1: “Your romantic affair would be better if you straighten your partner out.” Never entrap your mind believing that if you change your partner; your togetherness will be great. Once and for all, you have to let go of the childish notion that other people are responsible for your own happiness.
Yesterday I was having lunch with my “self- confessed not marrying type” friend and she asked me out of the blue “How do you keep yourself when you are madly in love with lover? How do you not lose your selfhood in the oneness of an affair?” “How can do you maintain the ‘I’ in ‘We’?” I was somewhat surprised by her sudden in-depth interest in romantic relationships so I gave her the most direct and uncomplicated relationship advice that I can give her. First off, Awareness is key. You should have a strong grip of who you are.Be aware of your strengths and weakness- know what can tick you off and know what can calm you down.
Support system is one of the bare necessities of a relationship. Without it, your bond will never last a month. As a matter of fact, people seek and yearn for a relationship because they need to have a support system in their life- someone to share and their love, joy, hopes and dreams, their ambitions and aspirations, their troubles and strife. That is why when a couple made their vows it specifies- “through thick and thin, for better or for worst, ‘till death do us part.” For couples, sometimes the problem is not their willingness to give the support system but how to do it.
It’s no secret that bad habits can hurt one’s marriage. But U.S. Government National Institute of Child Health and Development made a study of more than 160 relationships in Louisville University to back it up. Their study revealed that if you have nasty habits, your partner can never get used to it. The more times you repeat it, the more irritated your partner becomes. 
