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Tags: relationships, commitment, how to keep a man interested
 Once upon a time, there was a man and a woman. They met and they fell in love. And their love was beautiful. The man was a king when it comes to showing affection and the woman was a queen of generosity, kindness and love… and they lived happily ever after… or so it seems, until reality sets in. The man became busy and the woman stressed out. Things became shaky, and the arguments, frequent. The once happy woman has become a lonely princess, and the once noble man has become an ugly toad.
They say, "happily ever after" only exists in fairly tales. It can never happen in reality.
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Not when there are bills to pay and chores to prioritize. There’s a sense of truth to this. Relationships are never perfect, but it should be good enough to inspire you and give you direction. It should be good enough to keep love and respect in tact.
One of the things to keep the love and happiness from flourishing in your relationship is to make your one and only guy interested in you and your love affair. Keep him interested and he will be loyal to you forever. To keep him interested means keeping him in your marriage. If you are not married, then you have to keep him interested to fast track that ring on your finger. To keep him interested is not that complicated. You see, men are simple creatures.
They only need three things to keep them focused and in love. How to keep a man interested in your love affair only requires: your support, your faithfulness, and the pudding.
First, let’s talk about your support. You have to understand that it’s a dog eat dog world out there. Right from moment your man steps out of the door to put bread on your table, the world is waiting to devour him and beat him down. In the office, he needs to be in his best element, because he knows that the five people beneath his position are waiting for him to slip up or looking for a way to slip up. Out there in the wild world, anything can happen. Anything can happen beyond his control that can change his life in an instant. In other words, the man you love is constantly on a look out in protecting both your well-being. And being on a look out all day can be emotionally and mentally draining. And the moment he comes back to your house, he just wants to let his guard down and relax. Give your man the support he needs by welcoming him with a kiss and a hug and by asking how his day was. Show him how much you appreciate him.Say, “Thank you, honey. I can’t thank you enough how much I appreciate you for doing this for me and the children.” These are the magic words that can definitely keep him interested and inspired.
Your faithfulness. For men, love is about your faithfulness, your loyalty. For men, love is loyalty. That means that whatever happens, you will stand by them. Your man may get sacked, get convicted, or bankrupt, but you will never leave his side. Denzel Washington, Brad Pitt, or Hugh Jackman, may ask you out, but you will turn any of them down because your man is the only man for you. Be loyal and you will keep him interested through out the end. Be loyal and he will stand by you come hell and high waters.
The pudding. Do I need to elaborate? Men. Need. Sex. This is how they communicate their love. This is how they recharge and connect. They need sex, the way human beings need water. Keep sex coming in abundance and with enthusiasm and you will surely keep him interested and faithful.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's latest ebook on Finding Mr. Right. Discover how you can Find Your True Love here.
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