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Tags: relationships, commitment, is he worth it
 I never liked looking at broken- hearted people that’s why I became a relationship coach. In spite of my years being in this profession, my heart still cries for men and women who moan for their failed relationship. When this happens, I help people through their grieving process or feeling of loss then I aid them to decipher if they're wasting their time or not.
Believe it or not I noticed that people usually grieve for the wrong reasons. I observed that some people lament not because of losing the essence of loving but because nobody is there to cater their own personal issues. They fail to realize that their relationship failed because they failed to resolve their own personal issues or expect the other person to fix it for them.
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In this article, I am going to help women, decipher if their relationship is valuable enough to cry and grieve for. Not just in the post break up stage but while in the relationship as well. Women tend to out do themselves when pleasing their men without really asking herself if is he worth it? Girl, you know he is worth it when he looks after for you without selfish motives.
But how do you know he doesn’t have any selfish motives? You might ask. You know that he is not wearing a gentleman’s mask if he does something for you without asking anything in return but your safety or well-being. He not worth it is if he cannot give you the time you need.
Women generally cannot get enough attention from their partner even if they see each other on a daily basis. You know when you are not getting the time you need when you rarely see him in the span of two weeks. If you have been dating for always two months and don’t know his middle name, forget it.
He is not worth it. Another reason that he is not worth it is he never let you meet his friends. If he doesn’t have any, start asking questions. Another reason that he is not worth it is if he doesn’t date you public. Again start asking why questions. Then confirm his answers.
And lastly you know he is not worth it is if he jokes about women in a degrading manner. This is one indication that he has a bad blood. Always beware of a man who doesn’t know how to respect women. If a man respects you, you are in good hands and with this you can say that you are dating Mr.
Right keep him and never let him go.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's latest ebook on Finding Mr. Right. Discover how you can Find Your True Love here.
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