This time it doesn’t have to do with you getting naked, (though it doesn’t hurt). It’s all about showing him how awesome your personality is in certain situations. Believe it or not, perfect timing is what makes a woman irresistible to a man. Have you ever wondered why after spending weeks preparing for a romantic dinner or squeezing your creative juices writing a love letter, only to see that the outcome barely made an impact on your guy? That’s because to truly “wow” him, you have to make the most out of certain situations. Here are the perfect situations to impress a man.
Understanding men is an unending quest for us women. It seems as if, no matter how we try, the world is still divided with, “us” on one side and, “them” on the other. The needing and wanting to dissect the opposite sex becomes a mission for life. We squeeze our brains out with all these dilemmas about understanding men, and when we cannot get the answers we want, we instantly take it out on ourselves. But the fact is, it has something to do with their chemistry. Yes, hormones play a vital role on how men react to love and relationships.
A lot of women find themselves getting frustrated over the fact that it’s hard to get their message across to their man. She says one thing, and he does another. Do men and women actually speak the same language? Can they really communicate? The answer is yes, here are 4 simple communication techniques when talking to a man.
1. When verbally communicating with your man, tone down your body language. That’s because guys have trouble processing body language and words at the same time.
As human beings, we are all prone to mistakes, as a matter of fact; it is synonymous to making mistakes. But as human beings, we are also given a choice to redeem ourselves from the mistakes we did through apologizing. For some, it is an arduous task, because their pride gets in the way. But if you want to make things right again and want to know how to say sorry with all sincerity, then here are some tips for you:
Know what you are apologizing for. Did you say something hurtful? Did you break a promise? You can’t apologize sincerely if you don’t know what you are apologizing about.
One of the most difficult things we humans have to encounter is to respond to evil with kindness, hatred with love, or compassion with cruelty- forgiving the unforgivable. We can’t help but admire people who are capable of these exalted acts, but when that very thing is required of us personally, it seems inconceivable. Our default reaction seems to be anger, abhorrence, revenge, righteousness, depression, etc. It’s human of course, to feel these default reactions- it’s not easy when you have been cheated by your spouse, slighted by your mother-in-law, betrayed by a best friend, or bad-mouthed by a co-worker.
When Albert Schweitzer said, “Happiness is nothing more than good health and a bad memory.” I can’t agree with him more. I have always believed that deep and meaningful happiness is about unloading. When I say unloading, it’s about going to the heart of the matter. To rid yourself of the things that burden you, things that do nothing but complicate your everyday life. You are surrounded with these things, from the irritating television commercials to annoying people. These things are also in your heart and in your mind- they are commonly called grudges and heartaches.
When it comes to dating, believe me, I’ve been there and done that! And I can truly attest that emotional quotient defines the person’s success not just in life, but in love as well. I’ve dated a man once, who was a heavy load to carry. He complained about little things and saw every speck of flaw from everybody and everything. I get so drained out being with him. Then, there’s this one guy, who is just so amazing, his optimism is just so infectious, it feels good being with him- it’s delightful! It’s so great being with him; we’ve been together for years now. As a matter of fact, Psychologist agreed that Intelligence Quotient only contributes 20% to a person’s success.
With all the pressures you encounter in your every day life, it’s human to sometimes overlook how lucky you are in love. You can’t help but sometime focus on the things that irritate you or bother you in your relationship, and oversee the admirable aspects in your life and in your partner. In the spirit of Thanksgiving Day, I believe that you should take a moment and reflect and focus on the worthy and nice things about your partner. I think that in order to have a heartfelt Thanksgiving Day celebration, its best to truly internalize and appreciate the little blessings you have in your relationship.
Groucho Marx once said- “Behind every successful man is a woman." I don’t know if this still holds true today, because personally, I have always believed that a person is responsible for his or her own success. But in cases where your man lost his job and morale, a little push from you is necessary. When your man is down and out, this is where you can test your supporting power to help him recover. A little inspiration and motivation can be a powerful thing to help your man back on track.
