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Tags: relationships, communication, how to get men to do what you want
 Have you ever wondered why some women are just blissfully happy in their relationship? They are always laughing, frolicking and being romantic with their loved ones in spite of the years of being together? You see these women with their lovers opening the doors for them. When they cross the street, you see their men making sure that they on the safe side. Moreover, after office you see their boyfriends or husbands waiting for them ten minutes earlier. As a spectator, you can’t help but notice the pampering and evident love their men show them every single day without tiring.
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However, what is more evident is the look on these women’s eyes, it has the look of love, happiness and contentment and it is manifesting in their outer image. They look younger, at peace, and they have this air of unquestionable self- confidence. One can’t help but be inspired to find love and be in love and at the same time, wonder how these women did it. How are they able to have the success and happiness in their relationship? Is it possible that we can wake-up every morning knowing that there is a man waiting to cater our every romantic whims? The answer is yes, you can get a man to do what you want and have the relationship you have been yearning for.
How to get men to do what you want is not as difficult as you think it is. Here is some useful information.
- Primarily, you have to figure out what is it you want. It’s just logical. You have to be definite of what your standards are before you lay it out on your man.Yes, you can be fickle-minded and indecisive but not when it comes to your standards in the relationships.
- Once you have figured- out what is it you are looking for in a relationship, get a man to do what you want by laying it out on the first date. Don’t wait ‘til you have been going out exclusively before you tell him your expectations, you might end- up disappointed knowing that he is not capable of reaching your standards.
- When you get a man to do what you want, don’t tell him what it is you WANT, instead tell him what it is you DON’T want. Confusing? Let me explain. When a man usually asks you, what is it you like, you usually answer, “Oh I love daisies!” or “I love romantic walks on the beach...” when you do this, you are giving the person the road map to your heart. Yes, you will be getting the daisies and the romantic walks on the beach, but that’s all you are going to get. Eventually, when he’s done giving you what you fancy, it will all wane. When you hear women complaining, “He used to give me flowers but now there’s nothing except when he’s sorry for something...” this is the reason why.
- When you get a man to get what you want, tell him in a slick, smooth way what you don’t want. For instance, “I don’t really go for a man who doesn’t know how stand- up for what he says.” Or “I don’t waste my time playing around in relationships. Exclusivity is a major issue for me.” After making your point with your words, do it in your actions. Next time, he says he’ll be around at eight PM to pick you up and he arrives at nine without informing you, don’t take his crap. You’ll be certain that next time, he’ll be on time and learn to stand up to his words.
Men may find women with standards quite challenging to handle, but these standards are the ones that will get you to the altar with the right man.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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