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Tags: relationships, communication, the art of conversation
 Everything begins from a simple "hello," but it could also end right there and then, if you are not armed with great conversation topics. If you want women to swarm at you like a bee to a honey, then you should arm yourself with interesting conversation topics. Believe me, guys it will give you some damn good weight to women if you know how to carry a conversation. This is the time when you don't have to worry about asking a woman's number, because she will be the one to offer it to you. I know, I am a woman and it is just so captivating for a man to be able to let time fly without me noticing it.
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A man who knows what to talk about is tagged with the words- sexy, smart, and irresistible. So if you want to be known as sexy, smart, and irresistible, remember these excellent conversation topics.
- Talk about the person you are talking to. By nature, human beings love to talk about themselves. Figure out what she loves to do, her passion, her interests, her hobbies. Compliment her shoes. If she starts talking about crappy work and demanding boss, smoothly change the topic into something positive. This is the art of conversation, not letting negative vibes into the discussion. Be sincerely interested in her, make eye contact.
Never let your eyes wonder around if the person you are with is talking. Avoid asking questions answerable by yes or no because you will not be able to build the rapport with this one. - Talk about the surroundings. If you are in a party, you can discuss about music or the view of the location. If you are in a friend's dinner party, you can start by complimenting the food. Also take note of the music records and paintings inside the house, chat about those, too. Start your discussion with music and it can go on and on.
- Converse about the latest happening and water cooler topics. The news paper and TV are a great source for something to speak about. Be sure to choose the funny and interesting ones, avoid talking about deaths, illnesses, and tragedies.
- Converse about favorites. Her likes and dislikes. This discussion can flow into a wide range of fascinating topics like- music, movies, books and places.
- Converse about experiences. Except sexual experiences, unless you want to be slapped and be called a pervert. You can talk about her experiences about traveling, achievements and her pursuit of whatever...
In addition to this, smile a lot and be amiable. Exude a positive aura and never talk ill about others and never be judgmental. Take heed of what Dorothy Neville said "The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place but to leave the wrong thing unsaid at the tempting moment."
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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