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Tags: relationships, conflict, why men dump women
 For a woman being dump by a man can be a total bummer not to mention embarrassing. We can’t exactly pinpoint why men dump women because there can be several factors involved like incompatibility, beliefs, culture and many others. And these factors are given; you cannot force yourself into someone you are not compatible with, right? However, if you believe that you have done everything you could and yet still unable to let your man stay in the relationship then ask yourself if you are guilty of the common reasons why men dump women.
The“Me, myself and I” syndrome. It’s all about you, you, you and you. You don’t consider his feelings; you don’t take care of him when he is sick. You don’t help him carry the grocery bag, you don’t listen to him and worst you don’t wait for him to climax after you had yours.
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Men cannot stand selfishness, so if you think your man is keeping his distance, ask yourself when was the last time you prioritized him. Another reason that you will definitely get dumped by your man is if you cannot keep your word. You tell him this and yet do another.
You are constantly tardy and you always keep him hanging. Worst, you give fallacious excuses. In other words, you cannot tell a simple truth. It doesn’t matter if you look like Angelina Jolie; you will get dumped if you cannot get your story straight. Chronic or pathological liars drive men away like crazy.
Another sure fire reason why men dump women is by being a control freak. Was there a time that he invited you to dinner and it took you the whole fifteen minutes reiterating to the waiter how you want your salad done? Or he invited you to a day at the beach but you refused because you don’t want the wind messing up your hair? You will never change your schedule for anything, unplanned trips is never an option.
Spontaneity scares you. Men dump women if they are a complete nag and a complainer. I know that you want the best for your lover that is why you constantly correct him. Do you find yourself telling him this regularly? “Why can’t you….?” or “Do you ever do this or that…?” If you do, then don’t be surprise if your guy is becoming elusive by the minute.
This is because you make him feel that he cannot do anything right. A word of advice, woman, you cannot get your message across if you nag him, learn to boost his ego and he is all ears. The secret here is to try to be a little more comfortable with yourself, be a little happier and livelier.
Do this and you will become an instant man magnet.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Ruth recently published an easy to follow course on how to get your cheating spouse back. Click here to get more info about Winning Your Man Back From Infidelity.
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