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Tags: relationships, dating, love through the internet
 Have you ever had a bad and exhausting day? That you just need to lie down and rest your body and linger. But when your mobile phone beeped that you have an email you perked up like a new day and enthusiastically open your notebook and start chatting and all the exhaustion fade away “it’s a good day after all” you said to yourself smiling.
Love through the internet can have the same outcome like the ordinary here and now affairs. An online love affair can make you feel warm and cozy inside, it can make you feel that somebody is listening and that you matter. The good thing about online love affair is that both of you are not influenced by each others raw reactions of negative emotions unlike the common close at hand relationships, where couples tend to snap at each other.
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An online love affair can take you to a whole new different world, where you can share your frustrations and aggravations without cracking up. People get hooked on and actually deeply fell for an online love affair because they have someone to talk to and comfort them. There are several couples I know who have flourishing relationships because they had started out in an online love affair.
Dina a hotel manager in Florida told me her story of how she and Medz an internet marketer from New Jersey, met through the net,. “I met Medz via Twitter because I thought he was funny and endearing, he was very natural and witty, so I commented on his tweets and that started it all.
I followed him and he followed me back and we cannot stop chatting from then on” says Dina. “Chatting with Medz online gives me something to look forward to everyday. Every time I go online, it’s like in being hugged or reassured in some way when Medz and I talk about our day.
It really feels good when you have some who listens to you and someone who makes you feel that you are needed.” Dina continued. That was a year ago, now Medz is living with Dina in Florida. “The beautiful thing about an online love affair is that what draws you to the person is his or her mind and ideas, you are not influenced by any physical attraction.
You fell for the mind and personality not the physical shell of the person, which I believe is a great foundation for every relationship.” Medz said in conclusion. Love through the internet is possible and can be successful. Here are some few lasting points to remember to find love in the net.
I will only give two important points so that it’s very easy to recall and practice. First is to be natural and be honest in your profile. This includes your picture, profession, preference (likes and dislikes) and hobbies. Pretending to be somebody you’re not is a definite no-no. You deprive yourself of being like for who you really are.
You should however withhold certain vital and critical information for safety sake like addresses and phone numbers until you truly trust the person. Second is to practice GMARC. This does not mean that if you are not seeing eye to eye you have the right to be impolite. Politeness is always attractive wherever you are.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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