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Tags: relationships, dating, pick up lines
 Okay, not all men are gifted with a gift of gab. Countless of times have you been mistaken for a creep by a woman because you can’t seem to catch your tongue when you are about to talk and break the ice. You feel like a loser for not having the guts to go for the woman you like.
Your love life and your sex life have been put to halt because of your anxiousness to approach women. Your friends even stopped making fun of you; they now pity you for your fear of approaching women. The fact is, what you have is not fear of approaching women it’s the fear of rejection.
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Pick up lines can do so much but it has to be your spontaneity to keep the conversation that can really help you meet women. Take a deep breath, relax, try not to think about your worries and fears at the moment. Concentrate of the good outcome you will get if you can pull this out successfully.
So, you’re in a bar, you saw this cute lady across the table, she looks alone and quite decent. She is your type and you’re certain of that. You wait for a while to be sure if she’s really by herself. Then you saw her giving you a glance quite a few times already.
This is your clue to come up and meet your potential one nightstand and if your lucky maybe your soul mate. Here are some pick up lines to aid you. You can use some flattery pick up lines like “Are you sure you’re in the right place? Coz Miss Universe contestants are over there?” or “Why does it feel like the most beautiful girl in the world is in this room?” or you can try “Can I take a picture of you? I need to show it to Santa just what I want for Christmas.” Or something like- “I know I don’t stand a chance but for once I just want to hear an angel talk.” And another is “What do you do again? I thought you’re an interior designer because when you came in the room became beautiful.” Those are examples of flattery pick up lines, if you think it doesn’t work for you, then try some pick up lines with a hint of romanticism like- “I hope you know CPR coz you just take my breath away.” “I never had my dreams come true until the day I met you.” “You look like my first wife.” if she answers “how many have you had?” then answer “None.” And lastly you can try “Life without you is like a broken pencil - pointless.”.
There are so many pick up lines out there that you can use. But you know what? Almost all if not majority of women, don’t really go for pick up lines. Women find them ridiculous and hypocritical. Women love it when you come with your most sincere face- women love it when men are being candid.
Women like it a lot when men approach them in their most natural self and just let the conversation flow because if she is really interested in you, she will be doing most of the talking and you do most of the listening. Ironically, the best way to get a woman is actually by doing less talk and lots of listening and attention.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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