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Tags: relationships, dating, how to ask a guy out
 Inactively waiting for that hot guy to ask you out can be a total bummer, especially if you’re one independent chick, who always goes for what she wants. Sure, it can be quite intimidating to approach a guy, but it gives you a sense of control of your dating life, and beside- men like it. “A desperate woman is a woman crouched on our fire escape and licking our bedroom window, not a woman trying to make plans (or wearing a short skirt.),” says John DeVore, author of "Man Of Mind: Just Ask Him Out On A Date" of Frisky.com. Beyond that is very empowering for the ladies.
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Here are some tips on how to ask a guy out without looking like a loser.
• To make the first move, pretend as if you are asking a brother or a close personal male friend out. Be very casual, as in super chill.
Here’s how you do it:
You: Hey
Guy: Hey
You: What are you doing this weekend?
Guy: Nuthin’
You: Let’s grab some pizza and drinks.
• To make the first move, invite him on a guy-friendly outing.
As you are casually chatting with the guy you set your eyes on, casually ask him what he did last weekend or the coolest thing he did so far, then suggest a somewhat similar activity.
• To make the first move, invite him to a party.
This is a great idea if you cannot gather up some guts to go solo with him. Just make sure your Megan Fox- look- a- like pal do not tag along. You just want to be certain that his eyes stay glued on you.
• To make the first move, buy him a drink. If you are out in a club with friends and a hottie catches your eyes, send over a drink. If he is decent enough, he will make the next move and say thank you.
Now, make sure that when you make the first move, you look awesome. Act natural. Do not show a hint of apprehension. Remember, confidence is always irresistible.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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