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Tags: relationships, dating, how to attract women
 There are so many hypes out there on what to say and what to do to keep your date interested. This time however, I’m going to give you some dating tips on what not to say to your date. First, never say anything negative about her friends especially her guy friends.
Even if your gut feeling tells you that there is something going on between her and her “guy” friend, dissing him in front of her will only make you look like a loser and that, my friend is a total deal breaker if you want to keep her interested in you.
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It’s best that you focus and concentrate in your own game than risk being labeled as the “insecure boy”. Be a little spontaneous. Spontaneity is way to attract women. Being spontaneous means being fun and not predictable (boring), and women dig this a lot. This means that if you’re on your first date, don’t make plans for the second date, yet.
For instance, through the course of your conversation you found out that she loves dancing and without second thought you instantly responded “Why don’t we do that next Friday!” Even if she’s into you this, it will make you look desperate and this will lessen her excitement. Another point in keeping your spontaneity is to never set a date on when to call her, again this will make you look predictable and you will kill the chances of her calling you.
More dating tips that you should never, ever do is asking way too personal questions and being too nosy about her past. Examples of these are asking about her sex life and her past relationships. Dwelling on these topics will make her think that you are closed minded and meddlesome.
One more to remember to keep your date a pleasant one is to tone down on the “me, myself and I” What women abhor most during dates is men who can never stop talking about themselves and their toys. To tell you the truth guys, women include men who highlight their material possessions in a category of men who have nothing else to offer.
If you keep bragging your ass out, your date will think “What is he trying to compensate with all this boasting?” So, it’s best to pay attention to her and most importantly to listen more. The great way to make your date have a good time is to make her feel comfortable.
And lastly guys, women likes it if you take the lead, don’t stress her out by asking too many questions on what to do next. Women love a man who is confident enough to know what he is doing. I hope you find these dating tips useful. Good luck!
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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