When a man that we are interested in, asks us for a date, we ladies take time to dress up, look and smell good. But have we ever asked ourselves how we can maintain this men’s interest in us and have a second date. While it seems like he’s seducing us with his wit and charms, were actually in the midst of an investigation and this detective is on to us.
Their task is to determine whether or not we are worthy for a second date. So, shall we squeal? Here’s what we should watch out for and discover how to get a second date. We can sit across the dinner table looking hot for our man. But do we only open our mouth to insert food while gazing in his eyes demurely? Ladies, we aren’t mute.
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I’m not saying we should be a chatter box. Just keep the conversation to a minimal or your man will lose his interest towards you. A guy wants a captivating girl who has something to say, not a total bore. The bottom line is that the discussion doesn’t have to come out as were giving a lecture in politics in order to be a good conversationalist.
Just be open and enthusiastic because this is one way how to get a second date. Men have their own series of assessment that are designed to size us up for any characteristics of a bitchy behavior. One common method of detection is the way we speak to the service attendant; men pay close attention on how we deal with them.
Are we being courteous? Or do we wind up being nasty? If you ace the bitch test, then you’re on your way to a second date. At the end of the meal, most women still expect men to bear the expense. Instead of awkwardly fishing in your pursue for your wallet or offering to go dutch, a simply thank you would suffice.
It’s not that men don’t want foot the bill, it’s cool with them. Show gratitude for the little things and he’ll be anxious to give you an opportunity to say thanks for something even bigger and better down the line. We should also take it into consideration that though we can’t say outright to ask a man to take us out again for a second date.
We could simply try an approach like informing him that you had a great time and give him a lingering kiss or this time you ask him out. Remember, men are not mind readers so don’t just give them hints. You make it clear that you want a second date.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's latest ebook on Finding Mr. Right. Read more info about "Finding Your True Love" HERE.
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When a man that we are interested in, asks us for a date, we ladies take time to dress up, look and smell good. But have we ever asked ourselves how we can maintain this men’s interest in us and have a second date. While it seems like he’s seducing us with his wit and charms, were actually in the midst of an investigation and this detective is on to us. 
