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Tags: relationships, dating, you are dating the one
 When you are head over heels in love with someone, often times your judgement can be clouded. You believe that the person you are dating is absolutely your soul mate... until you found yourself struggling to in a relationship break down.
If there’s only a of knowing beforehand that you were throwing yourself pearls to the swine, you could have save yourself a lot of trouble. From now on, you can.
Here are some ways of knowing that you are dating the one.
• He sees you. You can’t really fathom it, but he sees you and gets the essential core of you. You feel understood, and you always have that warm comfortable feeling when you are with him.
• He brings out the best in you.
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You don’t know that it is in him, maybe it’s the way he looks at you, the way he pampers you, but you just feel like being the smartest, the funniest, and the most attractive when you are with him. You feel motivated to do your best at everything.
• You’re not too jealous. In connection with the above mentioned, since he brings out the best in you, feeling threatened or jealous is at its minimum level. In other words, he nurtures your self-esteem enough to feel secured about your relationship.
• There is a right degree of yearning. Have you ever felt that a relationship scares you, because you can’t help yourself? Well, it’s not the case when you are dating Mr.
Right. When you are dating Mr. Right there is a balance between nurturing yourself and your relationship.
• You are more yourself when you are with him. When you are dating Mr. Right, you are less conscious and anxious about yourself. You can be your craziest without the threat of him mocking you. In this context, you can also be at your quiet moment. There is no awkward moment, where you have to fill the space between your interactions, or have to explain to him all the time when you’re being quite... because he gets you.
• The physical chemistry is at its highest level. Sometimes you have to pinch yourself of how incredibly and surprisingly attracted you are to him. What’s more surprising is that he's not even your “type” but you can sometime see yourself staring at him, looking how unbelievably charming he is.
• You have fun together. You know you are dating your Mr. Right when you find yourself having fun and laughing together. Laughter makes the heart healthy, and your Mr. Right is really doing a good job doing it.
• You are not afraid to argue with him. If you disagree about something, you are not afraid to give your piece, because he listens to you and takes you seriously. Both of you see fighting as normal and a way of exploring your relationship.
• You can seriously see a future together. You know you are dating your Mr. Right when you see in him a character that you know you can live with for the rest of your life.
• You want him to meet your folks. You know he is the one when you are so proud of him, you just want him to meet your parents.
• You respect him. You like him as he is. There may be things about him that sometimes irritates you, but when it comes to the essence of him, you wouldn’t change him a bit.
• You are not afraid to reveal your vulnerable side. We all have our down time. You have one, too, but instead of being conscious, you are not afraid to show it to him. You don’t find the need on putting on a face when you feel like bursting in to tears.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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