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Tags: relationships, enhancement, cunnilingus
Okay, there are men who love to do it and there are men who don’t. Needless to say men who love to do cunnilingus to their partners are happier and more satisfied in bed. Men who are interested in doing the perfect technique in cunnilingus are concerned with the orgasm of their partner.
Oral sex is one of the essential parts of foreplay, and as we all know foreplay is important for women to have unforgettable orgasm. For those men, who are totally clueless and don’t know what the heck we are talking about, let me give you some practical and basic definition.
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 Cunnilingus is another form of oral sex performed solely for the pleasure of women; it is the art of making love to a woman’s vagina using your mouth and tongue. In bed, the act of cunnilingus is another way of showing your graciousness to your woman. Since giving her cunnilingus doesn’t give you much erotic pleasure and it can be very strenuous and it requires patience, energy and effort all for the gratification of your partner- it is absolutely an unselfish act to do for your lady.
Great oral sex can have a tremendous and lingering effect for the woman if done perfectly. If you’re a man who can give your woman multiple orgasms using your tongue, then hands down, you are definitely “the man!” Before we proceed to the techniques of perfect oral sex, let us first familiarize ourselves with the ever elusive vagina.
Try to activate those wild imaginations for educational purposes. When a woman takes off her under pants the first thing you are going to see in the vulva. The Mons pubis or the mound Of Venus, this area above the opening of the vagina is covered with pubic hairs and this mon pubis actually cushions the vagina during sex.
Just below the Mons pubis are two skin folds that encloses the vaginal opening and is made up of fatty tissues and covered with pubic hairs is called labia majora. When you open the labia majora, the next thing you are about to see is another set of vaginal lips or skin fold called the labia minora.
Labia minora is such an interesting tissue because the famous clitoris; clitoris also enlarges when stimulated, it is covered by a layer of skin called the “hood” or “prepuce”. It actually changes color and size when sexually aroused. Let your woman clean her genitalia for maximum indulgence. When you start your cunnilingus- you take your time, start by softly licking her labia minora and the crevices around it, never go directly to the clitoris- warm her up first before hitting the main target.
Explore your way around the vagina, gently sucking labia and teasingly go outside the territory lapping your way through the inner thigh and back again to the middle of the magnificent flower. Now that you’re done with that, move your way to the clitoris- the best way is to use your tongue and lips to stimulate it.
When trying to massage the clitoris, experiment on the perfect stroke until you find one that makes her scream with delight. Try to circle it, or flicker it gently with your tongue. Then, once you got the perfect tongue rhythm, continue it with the same speed and stroke until your woman oozes her ingratiating juice.
Once you have done this, then you have done the perfect way to please your woman unselfishly. Congratulations.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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