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Tags: relationships, enhancement, who will i marry?
 What’s your idea of The Marrying Kind? When we pose this question to gal pals, we’d get answers like: “Tall, dark and handsome.” “Smart, funny and understanding” “Has a good disposition in life, and isn’t afraid to try new things.” But have we ever tried to ask what men want.
We’d probably think guys can get it on with just about any girl especially one with a skirt below the knees. After all, they’re the one’s who makes the first move. Hooking up seems like no mean feat for guys. Right…and wrong. Though the courtship ball is on our hand, that doesn’t mean they don’t spot check among girls.
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Guys aren’t limited to a “lust” track mind. Look at some dating websites and you’ll observe that they often have this idea on their minds “who will I marry?” Men worry about happy–ever–after, too. So, in order to answer this growing question lets see from men’s perspective what exactly their ideal of the marrying kind is.
For men, the one is a girl who stands out and makes guys fall to their knees, tames their wild side and is most careful to have sex with. It could be because she’s the girl whom they’d take seriously or value too highly to loose to recklessness. Most guys will admit that while girl hunting is fun, it gets tiring at some point.
Time comes when they’d prefer an hour’s worth of good conversation to a half a day of hardcore romping. That’s where the “who will I marry?” comes. Peer pressure can also contribute to our frantic search for the marrying kind. When the boys start finding their own relationships, the Saturday night trips to the bar become few and far between.
That’s when they realize it’s lonely to be alone, and seek a steady partner of their own. We’d often wonder why most guys in their search for the marrying kind, end up going from one girl to another. As they end up with us, we’d look at him as a man not worthy enough to be taken seriously.
However, from a man’s perspective, they’d jump from one relationship when they know it’s not the right one. They’d stop hopping from one girl to another when they know they’ve finally found the marrying kind. Guys are often faced with certain what ifs. Ladies and gents, we’re actually looking for the same thing.
While they dream about a woman worthy enough to be the marrying kind, they date and try to meet her. While we make a mistake and get our hearts broken, they miss the mark and break hearts or get their hearts broken too. Meeting our perfect match is something we all want.
They’d understand that their Ms. Wrong could be someone else’s Ms. Right, so up until they find their version of the latter, men keeps searching till they find the marrying kind.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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