http://www.relazine.com/feed/ http://www.relazine.com/ Free tips and advice about having a successful relationship. From dating to friendship and marriage. Fri, 2 Jan 2009 15:54:04 +0100 Fri, 2 Jan 2009 15:54:04 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/serious-intimacy http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/serious-intimacy To have serious intimacy in your relationship, you have to deliberate what it is about. Literally, it means to “the state of being intimate with someone” or “the quality of being contented, affectionate or familiar.” Figuratively, it has different interpretations between men and women but both sexes need the belongingness and exclusivity it brings in the marriage. It is a practice of opening up -from the shallowest to the deepest core of yourself to your significant other. Like everything else, it has four elements. These are physical, emotional, mental and spiritual. The physical includes touching and being affectionate. Your warm hugs and sweet kisses, your back rub and massages are forms of this physical element. Fri, 26 Dec 2008 17:26:21 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/financial-crisis http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/financial-crisis No matter how financially ready or thrifty you are, it’s impossible not to be affected by the on going financial crisis. Nobody is spared from the tremendous outcome of the financial crisis. You never thought that even the most stable businesses could go bankrupt and lay out some employees. If a member of your family is one of the unfortunate employees who got laid off from their job; then you and your family are heading for a monetary crunch. The domino effect of the financial crisis can be quite devastating. It can totally change your life or even break your marriage apart. Mon, 22 Dec 2008 03:21:23 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/lovers-guide http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/lovers-guide One thing with sex is you will never really know how good a lover you are unless you have exceptional sexual communication with your lover and tells you honestly how good or bad you really are. So, here are some few of the lovers guide to be the best lover because if you ask him if you’re the best lover he ever had, more often than not, he will tell you what you want to hear with regards to sex. But what is the significant of the lovers guide? Do you really need a lovers guide? You sometimes question, isn’t sex suppose to be spontaneous and voluntary and doesn’t need any lovers guide? Yes, sex should be spontaneous and voluntary and it also has to be a form of expression and communication. Thu, 18 Dec 2008 08:34:31 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/Kissing http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/Kissing Kissing is everybody’s favorite activity. We all want to be kissed; it’s a very delightful feeling. When we were young, our parents showered us with kisses and it lifts our spirits high. It also helps in boosting our self- esteem. Kissing, it gives us that warm and fuzzy feeling inside. Now, that we are adults, it doesn’t change much. We show our affection and love through it. It makes us feel better and also safe and secure. Kissing is one urge we can’t help to do with our loved one. Just like a kid who cannot get enough kisses from his or her parents, so is an adoring lover from his or her partner. Wed, 10 Dec 2008 14:19:18 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/cunnilingus http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/cunnilingus Okay, there are men who love to do it and there are men who don’t. Needless to say men who love to do cunnilingus to their partners are happier and more satisfied in bed. Men who are interested in doing the perfect technique in cunnilingus are concerned with the orgasm of their partner. Oral sex is one of the essential parts of foreplay, and as we all know foreplay is important for women to have unforgettable orgasm. For those men, who are totally clueless and don’t know what the heck we are talking about, let me give you some practical and basic definition. Fri, 5 Dec 2008 09:56:43 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/aphrodisiacs1 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/aphrodisiacs1 Sex is essential to a marriage or any other romantic relationship. Without it, no matter how much you love each other, you will feel there’s something missing. Sex is an expression of your love and it releases tension and makes you feel good afterwards. But no matter how much you love to have sex, it wanes. Factors that cause sex life to decrease can be psychological or it can be physiological. Men from different times and era would do anything to prolong their upbeat cravings for sex, hence the discovery of aphrodisiacs. Aphrodisiacs are substances- like food, tea or herbal products, drug or scents believed to enhance libido or sexual desires. Fri, 28 Nov 2008 02:09:01 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/larger-penis http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/larger-penis Size doesn’t matter; it’s how you use it…yes, there’s a sense of truth to it with regards to penis size and performance. And women usually don’t complain as long as men give them the climax they always wanted. For men, basically what matters most in the whole universe is what’s between their legs. Thanks to the wonders of man’s genius, science and technology has developed ways and means to give the male species the option to have larger penis size and longer erection. But before we dwell on those options, let us first shed some light about the anatomy of the vagina- the object of desire of every man’s organ. Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:58:27 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/insecurity http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/insecurity When you look at the mirror, do you like what you’re seeing? How often do you smile in a day, do you even remember to smile? Is it your hobby to gossip and talk about someone else’s flaws and imperfections? Does talking about the misery of other people makes you feel better about yourself? Are you usually hesitant to do things in front of other people? In a relationship, do you require a lot of approval and time from your partner? Do you have silent expectations from you partner and expect those expectations from him? And most importantly- do you like/ love yourself? Answering yes to most of the question mentioned above means you are very insecure, negative, needy, and envious- you are a leech. Wed, 8 Oct 2008 17:14:05 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/having-a-baby http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/having-a-baby The birth of a child is nothing sort of cataclysmic—no single event can have such tremendous impact on the lives of those involved in it. It creates different roles, submerging the old—husbands become fathers, wives become mothers, and parents become grandparents. It strengthens existing relationships and forges new ones; generates new roles and priorities and provides opportunities for marriage to grow. To say that having a baby is a momentous event is an understatement—it is overwhelming, mind-boggling, and life changing. Perhaps, nobody knows this better than the new mother herself. Forget the romanticized birth tales you have heard; childbirth is a distressing—if not altogether traumatic—experience, both for mother and baby. Thu, 2 Oct 2008 23:56:24 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/what-is-an-Alpha-Male http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/what-is-an-Alpha-Male So much has been written and said about the Alpha Male—that paragon of maleness every man secretly admires and every woman secretly fancies. The internet is awash with tips on how to transform oneself into an A-type male in a matter of weeks, even days, and promises that once the transformation is complete, the world will become one’s oyster. Books have been penned dedicated to the Alpha Male Syndrome, as if it is a disease one could catch. But despite all the attention, the Alpha Male remains a tricky code to crack. Just who is the archetypal A-type man? What sets him apart from his equals? Is he what he seems to be, or is there a deeper, darker side to this enigmatic figure? The Alpha Male phenomenon is not entirely new. Fri, 20 Jun 2008 22:12:17 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/flowers http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/flowers Most men, whether single or married, knows why giving flowers can score whopping points from women. Although some are still quite puzzled on why they even have to be bothered learning about these delicate and frilly creatures, it’s quite a common knowledge that flowers are pretty high up in the scale of romantic gestures. In fact, the only other thing that can really score points are jewellery (hint: diamonds are a girls’ best friend). It’s an unspoken and unwritten rule in relationships that men should know some things about giving flowers. Of course, if you want to impress a woman, you must go all-out to make your flowers stand out from the pack. Mon, 9 Jun 2008 19:59:05 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/talking-dirty http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/talking-dirty Talking dirty is an art form; it may seem a little too much for some, while it simply isn’t something that others usually do. However, doing it right can actually fire up the bedroom and perk up a flagging relationship. A person wishing to learn how to talk dirty is always faced with the dilemma of where and how to start -- even nowadays, some people still find it difficult to talk about what they want when it comes to sex. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship, and the secret to mind-blowing sex. The most important golden rule in talking dirty is to know your partner’s acceptance level first. Wed, 28 May 2008 21:43:14 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/romance http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/romance We all have our own definition of romance: it is a nicely-written love poem, a breakfast in bed, or an adorable puppy at your doorstep. It is a very important ingredient for every successful and passionate relationship, whether it’s still in the budding phase or running for more than 30 years already. Relationships usually start out with a bang, with romance at its sweetest and finest. But, life’s drudgery is always likely to interfere, and it is pushed aside for more pressing issues such as work, family and kids. Is it the fate of romance to wane and fade in the later stages of a relationship? Let’s find some answers to the common questions about romance: Are romance and sex one and the same? No, these are two very different things, although romance can ultimately lead to sex. Tue, 27 May 2008 18:32:06 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/swinging http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/swinging Swinging—what is it and where did it come from? It’s a pretty common term, unless you haven’t heard of it, or you have no idea what it is. Swinging is a new and thrilling unconventional sexual lifestyle that heterosexual couples and consenting adults engage in. Swingers are the couples who hook up with other couples and switch partners at intimate parties and in the privacy of their own homes. Sounds like sexual candy, no? Oh yes, swinging is well and alive—no, it’s not just a figment of one’s erotic imagination—it happens in real life, and the number of swingers are growing by the minute! Swing clubs where couples can attend and mingle with other swingers have been increasing. Thu, 22 May 2008 21:39:11 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/dress-to-impress http://www.relazine.com/enhancement/dress-to-impress Clothes are a part of a person’s individuality. What a person wears usually speaks volumes about his/her personality. Often, it is an essential factor in the dating game. The majority of the first impression a person creates is largely based on how the one looks—especially on the clothing style. So, it doesn’t come as a shocker when people hoping to attract a mate do everything they could to dress to impress. Since every person has his/her own concept of fashion, clothes are part of the issues that are far too personal for somebody to comment on, or give advice. The golden rule for dressing up is to keep it clean and simple; other than that, here are tips on how to dress to impress: Many people spend a lot of money on expensive clothes only to end up looking like they’re wearing a potato sack.