http://www.relazine.com/feed/ http://www.relazine.com/ Free tips and advice about having a successful relationship. From dating to friendship and marriage. Tue, 30 Dec 2008 17:30:09 +0100 Tue, 30 Dec 2008 17:30:09 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/love-making-tips http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/love-making-tips The ironic thing about sex is most probably you do it more often than playing basketball but I bet your three-point shot is better than your missionary position. This is because unlike any sports, there are no trainers or coaches in love-making to tell you if you’re not doing it right or wrong. That’s why there are love making tips available unless you and you’re partner have exceptional sexual communication then you have no problem being sexually unhappy. You should never take sex for granted because a healthy sex life can save your marriage. You have to keep in mind that one of the reasons of infidelity is a non existent sex life in marriage. Mon, 15 Dec 2008 05:39:54 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/role-playing- http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/role-playing- Sex if done monotonously and habitually, it becomes boring. That’s why men concocted the art of role playing in sex. Role playing is when you carry out all your sexual fantasies and let go of your sexual inhibitions. Since we were kids, we all love to play pretend to alleviate boredom- boys wear their cowboy hats and little toy guns and pretend to be this big-ass-sharp-shooting cowboys while girls wear their glittering tiara with a colorful scepter in hand and pretend to be this beautiful princess. Now that we are adults, role playing takes a different definition- it’s more realistic and very sensual but has the same purpose- to keep us away from getting bored. Wed, 3 Dec 2008 05:42:17 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/hand-job http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/hand-job Making love is one of the factors that keep the passion burning in a relationship. Keeping it exciting and stimulating can awaken any dormant bonding. But keeping sex life alive requires conscious effort. One thing that makes sexual intercourse exhilarating is foreplay and second to giving a bountiful amount of blow job, doing a perfect hand job can send your man to the roof of pleasure. Be careful though, incorrect demonstration of a hand job can cause injury and can traumatize your man, sending him running out of the door if not the E.R. First, let us familiarize ourselves with the anatomy of the penis. Thu, 20 Nov 2008 10:05:20 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/ask-you-about-sex http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/ask-you-about-sex Every parent dreads this moment. It seems like yesterday when their precious ones are still in diapers. And now they come up to you and ask you how they were made. You freeze; you don’t know what to say. You called your spouse to help you out. Changing your views about the situation might help you out. If your kid can come up to you and ask you about sex, it only shows your child is very comfortable talking to you and have the confidence you are going to listen to them. Children who can approach their parents this way are less likely to engage in high-risk behaviors. Mon, 17 Nov 2008 09:47:19 +0100 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/Orgasm http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/Orgasm Reaching the top most peak of orgasm for women is like finding your way through the streets of China. It has lots of twist and turns and U- turns; you can get lost and end up being laughed at or gotten angry at. But if you can discover the way to females orgasm, you will be greatly rewarded. There are so many ways to reach that elusive orgasm. It will not be as elusive if you both parties pay attention to each other. It usually takes both parties’ efforts and proper communication to have that fulfilling and orgasmic experience. For women, the number one rule is to be comfortable with yourself. Tue, 7 Oct 2008 01:30:29 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/gender-diffrences http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/gender-diffrences Most men are clueless about women. No matter how hard they try, the poor souls are often swimming in a sea of confusion where the supposedly weaker sex is concerned. Whether they are arguing with their mothers, sisters, wives, girlfriends, and yes, their 5-year-old niece, they always end up scratching their heads in bafflement, throwing their arms in surrender, and retreating like wounded dogs—not necessarily in that order. Women, on the other hand, find men puzzling—they act like lovesick puppies one minute and insensitive brute the next. This male paradox can consume a woman, and it is not unknown for one to take a man’s single word, pick it apart, and reconstruct it into a whole paragraph, complete with innuendos. Mon, 6 Oct 2008 11:41:25 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexuality http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexuality “Let me tell you ‘bout the birds and the bees, and the flowers and the trees, and the moon up above, and a thing called love. Let me tell you 'bout the stars in the sky, and this girl and the guy, the way that they kiss, on a night like this.” I first heard this song two years ago driving home from my son’s school. I liked the catchy melody, but was discomfited that my four-year-old was belting it out with such abandon. Should he be singing about bees and birds and a guy and a girl kissing at such a tender age, I wonder. Thu, 19 Jun 2008 21:58:09 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexual-confidence http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexual-confidence Not all men are born like Casanova, whose amorous charms no woman can resist. It is not unusual for men to experience a sudden lack of sexual confidence around women. In fact, a lot of guys usually feel some form of anxiety because of being unsure of what to do to satisfy their partner in bed. As a result, they end up projecting a nervous attitude towards sex which seriously affects their performance in the bedroom. However, there are also men who just seem to have such incredible confidence with women, even if they are obviously lacking a lot in the looks department. Wed, 18 Jun 2008 22:50:28 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/open-relationship http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/open-relationship Open relationships are otherwise known as polygamous or polyamorous relationships. It is defined as a situation wherein couples go into mutual agreement to date and engage in sexual activity with other people although they still continue being in a relationship with each other. In the past, those who blatantly disregarded the definition of monogamy were called swingers. Nowadays, however, a lot of rules in relationships have evolved, and the number of people in open relationships has increased dramatically. Although it has been something that was frowned upon back in the days, the social embarrassment that used to go along with being engaged in polyamory has seen a significant drop, not only among singles but among those involved in a committed relationship, even marriage. Fri, 13 Jun 2008 21:05:24 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexual-history http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexual-history In just about any kind of relationship, honesty is one of the qualities that many people want, hands down. After all, who doesn’t want a truthful, genuine and honest partner? These traits are very important, particularly in an individual’s sexual relationship with another person. While sex for some may only mean fun and games, for a lot of people it is an expression not only of love and passion, but of trust as well. Only a very few singles today uphold virginity, so it’s no surprise when a person who becomes involved in yet another relationship has already been sexually active before. Tue, 10 Jun 2008 21:43:37 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/pornography http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/pornography Even before the internet has become a household name, pornography has already existed. In the past, just the mere mention of the word can cause mayhem in a community, especially when done by a young boy. Religious teachings and stringent rules about manners and conduct rendered pornography a taboo, and talking about it openly was simply unheard-of. However, the rules change as time goes by. Although it is still not publicly discussed in schools because of the stigma and most people’s religious upbringing, it is an undeniable fact that most kids (especially boys) are already familiar with it and have at one time or another already peeked at some men’s magazine at a young age. Thu, 5 Jun 2008 17:29:49 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/pleasure-spots http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/pleasure-spots Women are notorious for their need to be touched. In fact, any man who wants to make their partner smokin’ hot in the bedroom must first learn the art of touching and have the patience for it. But, anyone who has mastered this skill can attest that it has awesome benefits, not only in the boudoir but in the relationship as a whole. Men, on the other hand, have an entirely different idea of how things should go as far as intimacy is concerned. Ask any woman, and majority of men (there might be a few exceptions) often prefer to just wham, bam, thank you!—then roll over on his side of the bed, leaving the other person exasperated. Thu, 22 May 2008 21:57:43 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sex-drive http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sex-drive Sex isn’t just something that a lot of us enjoy; it’s also something that could improve health. Yes, sex is actually good for everyone! Studies prove that having sex regularly helps increase immunity from viruses, reduces stress, and also helps protect a man’s prostate gland by emptying the fluids held there. The release of endorphins, or chemicals that improve mood and ease pain, are also triggered by sex. In short, boosting one’s sex drive does a lot of wonders to his/her partner (and to the relationship) and also effectively improves health. While menopause in women usually affects one’s sex drive and function in one way or the other, it is never a reason for healthy people to be deprived of a pleasurable sex life. Tue, 13 May 2008 20:51:55 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexually-connected http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sexually-connected It’s always easy to find reasons to avoid sex: you’re exhausted, not in the mood. There are a thousand things running through your head that merely thinking about it drains the life out of you; or you just don’t feel sexy anymore. Having sex is simply out of the question to a lot of women who is recovering from childbirth, dealing with hormonal imbalances, or fighting with a spouse. Is there a way to ignite passion amidst the stresses of everyday life? Can one stay sexually connected during unsexy times? Simple arguments and misunderstandings can make one lose interest in making love. Mon, 12 May 2008 22:32:22 +0200 http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sex-life http://www.relazine.com/sexuality/sex-life A good sex life for adults over 60 depends largely on health conditions and lifestyle. Younger folks generally have a hard time believing that their aging parents (or even grandparents!) might still be sexually active; the truth is only 5% of those considered over-the-hill feel that sex is only for the young ones. Having a sexual relationship is important, even if the couple is over 60. Romance, intimacy and sex go hand-in-hand—most couples have sex at least once, even three times a week. However, various health issues which commonly plague this age group may contribute to the loss of sexual drive.