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"Life it’s cruel and unfair, it’s dark and sorrowful, and it is cunning and mean. It’s an unkind game of injustice and prejudice." This is life through the eyes and heart of a lonely person. Yes, everything is truly sad and desolate without friends. Being friendless is not a good way to live a meaningful and healthy life, yet some people continue to isolate themselves from the company of camaraderie. Though I have always been appreciative of my friends, I cannot forget the time when they literally and figuratively made my life beautiful. I remember along time ago, during my college years when my boyfriend and I finally agreed to end our four- year relationship.
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Ending a friendship can be as painful as ending a romantic love affair. People have different opinions and thoughts which can anguish a person more, ending a friendship or ending a love affair. The satisfaction and the happiness you get from friends are not comparable to the gratification and joy you can have from a romantic relationship. I think these two should never be on the same level with each other. In ending a friendship and love affair, though the degree of grief may be different and the hurt and disappointment may be incomparable but altogether it is a very unpleasant and uncomfortable experience.
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Once or twice in our life we get to encounter a toxic friend. A toxic friend is someone who constantly gives you a headache and disappoints you most of the time. She puts you on the spot, embarrasses you and worse, betrays you. It’s kind of ironic that you call her a friend when she habitually lets you down. A toxic friend is great in some aspect; she can make you laugh. You have fun when you hang out but when it comes to serious stuff, she always lets you down. One example of a toxic friend is a person who never stands up to her words.
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The transition from friends to lovers can be difficult to do especially if you have been friends for a long time. You know that it can also be quite scary for a girl to hear that her guy best friend is falling inlove with her. So the best you can do is to endure a little more time hiding your real feelings and continue being one of the “girlfriends”. I can only imagine what a torture it can be hearing her lusting about this guy or talking about how great the date or the sex was. Just think that enduring this pain has a greater purpose.
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Dealing with peer pressure is an ongoing process. Being in this situation is more than just a stage or phase that people go through. If dealing with peer pressure is not handled well, it can have permanent or damaging effects. Teenagers are not the only people prone to this kind of dilemma. As an adult you are also at risk of negative persuasion especially if the persuader is your superior or your lover. I have this friend of mine who abhors tattooing but when she got involved with this “rocker” guy I was totally shocked to see a tattoo of their names in her ankle.
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I have always been very sentimental and close to my friends. They always matter to me. I once told this best friend of mine when my time is up in this world, I want you to be the one to speak in my eulogy because you’re the one who really knows me to the core- justify me. This is not an unusual occurrence, there are so many people out there when asked who knows them more- they are going to tell you, it’s their best friend; not their mom, not their dad, not their siblings, and not even their spouse.
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Thinking Of Being Friends With Your Ex? Forget It. Here’s Why
Breaking up is always an unpleasant episode especially if you’re the one being dumped. Nothing can make you feel rejected in all sense of the word than being dumped. The pain of the break up can be overwhelming; it can really change you into an untrusting individual. On the other hand, if you’re the one on the other side of the fence who pioneered the break up- your situation is just as unpleasant. You are now the villain, the inconsiderate monkey who cause someone irrefutable emotional damage. Sometimes, this complicated emotions brought about by the break up can lead to solutions you thought are best for you and your ex.
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The" Benefits" Of Being Friends With Benefits
Friends with benefits happens when too people who see each other for orgasm decides to talk afterwards. They decide to talk, eat together and meet outside the confines of the bedroom and actually enjoy each others company… or it can be the other way around. They are buddies who love to talk, eat together until they meet in the confines of the bedroom and discover they like giving each other orgasms. There is this norm in friends with benefits, your not supposed to be emotionally involved. The silent rule is not to have any rule- no commitments. You have to be a highly evolved human being if you are able to separate your emotions to someone you do body slamming with in some cheap motel regularly.
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Platonic Friendship- Does It Still Exist?
The answer is definitely YES! But we were made to believe that male- female friendship cannot be and will not be done. It is impossible. Well, we can’t blame them- we were made and brought up to believe that man and woman coexist in the bounds of sex and romance alone. It is written in the bible- Eve was created for Adam. It is in the television- Monica and Chandler in Friends; George and Izzy in Grey’s Anatomy. It is in the movies- “When Harry Met Sally”, the movie was basically about cross-sex camaraderie and proved that men and women cannot resists the temptation of sex, that it always comes between them.
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Staying Friends With An Ex: Will It Work This Time?
For a lot of relationships, breaking up is an inevitable reality that must be dealt with quite often. It is hard to do, no doubt about it, but it must be done and got over with. What makes it extra painful is not seeing the other person go, actually, but the feeling that it has all been an utter waste of a lot of time and emotional energy. Besides, the thought of never seeing or speaking to a loved one again is definitely scary, which is what makes a lot of couples believe that staying friends with the ex is better even after the decision that the relationship can never work.
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