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Tags: relationships, gay lesbian, finding mr right
 They say when you are eager to fall in love you just have to wait for it. You don’t come out chasing after it like a dog. When you fall in love, it will “just happen.” There’s a sense of truth to this. The more badly you want it, the harder you’re going to get it.
The more desperate you look for love the more it will avoid you. Or it can end up with the wrong person or worst to opportunistic love predators. The best advice I can give you is to go on with your daily routine. Go on with your daily activities but be emotionally, mentally and physically prepared in case you bump into your ideal mate.
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Being yourself prevents you from meeting cold-hearted love predators. For instance, if you are looking for an intellectual, sensible serious lover, go to the right places. If you’re looking for a one night stand then go to sleazy clubs. Yes, there are chances that you will meet the likes of Collin Farrel but I don’t think they are going to take you seriously if you meet in a place that exudes “I’m all for fun and nothing else” mood.
If you’re looking for a serious gay lover go to decent places or parties recommended by trusted friends. Finding Mr Right is all about being the right person also. As I’ve said go with your regular system but be physically, mentally and emotionally ready. Psych yourself up everyday as if you are going to meet the right person.
Finding Mr Right is being positive about it. The Law of Attraction. In finding Mr Right always be presentable. Isn’t it a shame if you run into your potential mate in a coffee shop but you’re too reluctant to approach him because you look like the bum from the street? You haven’t shaved for days and you’re in your tattered shirt and old jogging pants so instead of risking yourself of embarrassment, you pitifully turn your back and head home.
Be this a lesson, in finding Mr Right, be fit to be seen. Floss and brush, shave and perfume yourself and don’t forget to put on that deodorant. Wear iron- pressed shirts and pants. Clean your nails especially your feet. Some gay people are really attracted to clean feet, you know.
And of course smile a lot and be friendly. Part of being physically ready is having a well-presented pad. You can never guess when your soul mate might drop by in your abode. So clean those cobwebs on the corner wall and wash your dishes and take out that trash.
Another way of finding Mr Right is be mentally and emotionally ready. Read and keep yourself updated. Not with rumors but with sensible thoughts. Remember, simpletons talk about other people, mediocre people talk about mediocre stuff but intellectual people talk about rational and logical ideas. You attract people of your own kind.
So if you’re ideal lover is someone who is intellectually and physically stimulating be that. Sign up to a gym or a yoga class and enter a book club. This will also help you build your self esteem and enhances your personality. You will end up doing great in your job and improves your relationship with family and friends.
The next thing you know you are this fabulous person and you will be every one’s ideal lover. Finding Mr Right will become a walk in the park.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's latest ebook on Finding Mr. Right. Discover how you can Find Your True Love here.
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