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They say in everything we do, in every decision that we make, either of the two are your only motives behind it- fear and love. Believe or not distinguishing between the two can be very confusing. The best way that we can do is to define the difference between fear and love. The former is characterized by an unpleasant feeling that something tragic is going to happen. With it your heart beats fast, your blood pressure rises, your pupils dilate and your muscles constrict. There are two kinds of anxiouness- healthy and unhealthy. The former is actually helpful, for instance you quit smoking because your husband has chronic asthma.
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Have you ever wondered how it feels to go beyond yourself. Where you don’t merely think of what you want, what you should do or what you shouldn’t. For somebody who has reveled in the carefree and independent life of singlehood, the idea of breaking down the shell of the “I” and letting another person in may somewhat be daunting. That’s basically how it is when a person realizes they have developed profound affection for somebody. Cliché it may have been, but this is what happens when somebody has fallen into the vacuum of “love”. When a person is “in love”, there is the risk of them becoming vulnerable.
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Touch of love we can’t get enough of it. It’s a need. According to Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs- men have five basic needs. One of these need are the physical needs like food, water, clothing and shelter, the safety needs like security and protection, the social needs which is the need of the person to belong and to be loved, Self- esteem needs, this is our need to be recognized, and the last but not the least self- actualization, the need of knowing true happiness. If you noticed, almost all of the needs desired by men include the sense of touch- the touch of love.
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The truth about true love is we were deceived. There has been a conspiracy between the Grimms Brothers, Hans Christian Andersen, Greek Mythology, Shakespeare and those multi-millionaire music and movie producers in Hollywood. The worst part is this plot has been going for ages now. This conspiracy is so successful, it has become a belief. A belief so lived it causes insanity and even death for some. Yes, you know what I’m talking about; I’m talking about true love. Jacob and Wilheim Grimm made us believed during our school age years- true love is our savior from our misery and agony.
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Your mom always tells you- “Stop throwing your pearls to the swine.” You never really understand what that means until you have been broken- hearted several times in the past. And have invested so much time, effort and emotions in a relationship. You are tired of being blinded by the “idea” of love; you fail to see if your lover feels the same degree of seriousness in the relationship. As a person, you hate wasting your precious time with irrelevant people. When you are involved in a relationship, you always want it to be the last one. The real one.
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You swoon, you sigh. He is so romantic, so perfect! He is constantly calling you, giving you sweet nothings. He pampers you tremendously. He tells you every day that he will do anything and every thing you want. Your heart sinks every time he cries by the mere thought of you leaving him. You tell yourself you are so lucky to have someone who feels for you intensely. He is so perfect you ignore the fact he just got out from a 5-year relationship. He is love on the rebound; your friends say it might not work, especially if he is the one who got dump.
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Love Vs. Attraction- The True Unmasking
“Anyone can love a rose but it takes a great deal to love a leaf... it is ordinary to love the beautiful, but it is beautiful to love the ordinary...” it’s right what they say about clichés, they tell the truth. Before we decide to get involved into something- may it be in business, in friendship or in a romantic relationship, we always ask the million-dollar-question:Is this for real? In this case, we are going to discuss about romantic relationships, which is much harder to fathom than any other relationships. “Romantic relationship” applies to any form-not just between man & women but to anyone who feels something special and unique for someone.
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Platonically Speaking: Shedding The Light On Platonic Love
Love is unquestionably the most potent, eternal sentiment known to man. Kingdoms rose and civilizations crumbled in its name; without it, humankind will cease to exist. Sadly, love is also the most repressed of human feelings. Society has erected such rigid standards of what is acceptable and unacceptable to which we have gladly succumbed. Such ready adherence has colored our perception of love and how it should be expressed. As an example, let us focus on platonic relationships between a man and a woman, which most people cynically regard as improbable, if not impossible, ventures. Just what is a platonic relationship? Does exist, and if it does, is such a relationship possible between a male and a female? To answer these questions, we need to examine the philosophy behind it.
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The Art Of Loving Unconditionally
For most of us, unconditional love is a difficult—if not impossible—concept to grasp. In an egocentric world bogged down with terms and conditions, the idea of loving someone unconditionally is akin to inviting a thief to one’s house and giving him a set of keys—pure trouble. Stipulations govern most aspects of our lives—employees are sworn to uphold a code of work ethics or risk discharge; students are required to follow school policies or hazard expulsion; churchgoers are expected to abide by the church set of laws or run the risk of banishment. Our personal relationships are not spared from such onslaught—prenuptial agreements doom a marriage before it has even begun, and marriage itself is regarded as a contract to which husband and wife are bound for life.
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Everybody Wants True Love!
What’s a fairytale without a prince charming, a princess in distress and true love? It’ll probably be just another old story that will somehow fade into obscurity as time goes by. But, the element of true love is what made fairy tales into all-time blockbusters. Yes, everybody wants it so bad, even those princesses who did nothing but wait for their courageous knight in shining armour atop his mighty steed. Even today, everybody wants a taste of true love no matter how elusive it is. Some are lucky to have stumbled upon it, while a lot have simply given up in the unending quest for it.
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