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Tags: relationships, love, husband material
 Your mom always tells you- “Stop throwing your pearls to the swine.” You never really understand what that means until you have been broken- hearted several times in the past. And have invested so much time, effort and emotions in a relationship. You are tired of being blinded by the “idea” of love; you fail to see if your lover feels the same degree of seriousness in the relationship.
As a person, you hate wasting your precious time with irrelevant people. When you are involved in a relationship, you always want it to be the last one. The real one. You don’t want to sound idealistic but you value your emotions, you value intimacy, you value love and you don’t want some wiseass to take advantage of it.
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In other words, you value sincerity. You have kissed a lot of toads just to find your prince charming. Now that you have found your potential prince charming, you want to live happily ever after with him. But how do you know you are on the same boat with him? What if your prince charming is not so charming after all but a rabbit who is still hopping around looking for a better hole? In a relationship there are sex materials and there are husband materials.
When we become mature and had enough of the sex part, we realize, we need someone for companionship and that’s when we appreciate having someone as a husband material. What exactly is a husband material? Before you invest emotionally and mentally find out if he is a husband material. Here are some few signs he is a husband material.
There is no “I” in the word team- when both of you talks casually about life and future, he unconsciously uses the word “we”- you and him. This is an indication he treats both of you as one. He includes you in his plans and his future. If he sees both of you as one, he is aware that what ever decision he will do, it will have a direct effect on you.
Making him a responsible and dependable partner, truly a husband material. Another clue he is the one for you is when he is so in to you. He cares for you and your work, your friends, you family even your hobbies. He finds time to go to your family gatherings or occasions, even joins and assists in entertaining the guests.
He takes time to help you in your take home work because he knows you are so stressed out. He lends a hand when one of your friend is sick or in trouble. A husband material treats your family the way he treats his family. This shows he considers you as someone as close and as precious as his family.
He also wants you to be a part of his life, he let’s you meet his parents and close relatives and invites you to their exclusive family celebrations. He also let you meet his close and best friends. If your guy does these things to you, he is openly telling you are part of his circle of trust.
Husband materials are a minority at these times, so if you find one, do your part and be the wife material.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's latest ebook on Finding Mr. Right. Discover how you can Find Your True Love here.
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