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Getting over a break up is never easy even if it was your idea to break up with your man. It hurts to see your ex dating another women or much worse, is involved with one. We then start to ponder if their something wrong with us that makes our man loose interest which is quiet a natural defense mechanism that help us overcome from being too upset by negative emotions. Some women would react on getting their man back; others would find ways on how to move on. So, how do we recover after our man moves on before we do? Let’s look at some of the habits we do after a break up and on ways to soften the blow.
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If there’s one human being who loves us unconditionally and profoundly, it’s our mom. They know us more than anybody else, we may think that they don’t but actually they really do. We may sometimes find their pampering over the top or at times annoying but hey!, they are made for that, and they can’t help it. As a relationship coach, my mom’s wisdom and good example has a big influence. So in this article, I am going to share my mom’s advice on love and relationships. This happened during my teenage years, though I can’t relate but I’m sure this is one of the toughest stages to get through to a child but somehow my mom never run out of tricks to get her insights on me.
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You’ll find that the hardest part about surviving break up is getting over this painful predicament to accept that there is someone else out there for you. As you ponder the thought “what if there’s no one?!” Then panic creeps up on you which make one think that surviving break up would be difficult. All it takes is a little determination without making it look more like it’s out of desperation. Focus on your goal, what you want, given enough time, to find a better match for you. With the right amount of patience and persistence, you can shake off your notions that limit your choices and eventually find the right one.
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Living in together is a very delicate matter to discuss. Some are really against it while some tolerate it.I was warned about writing an article about living in together because some people are very sensitive to these kinds of issues. As a relationship coach, living in together is not a new thing. I know one couple who has been living in together for as long as I can remember. Getting married is not an issue for them as long as they know where they stand; they trust each other enough to be on the bound of holy matrimony. They said they want to be together because they love and are committed with each other, they don’t want the constraint and pressure marriage life brings.
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It is a fact that you can control your own reactions but sometimes you cannot help to be affected by the people around you, especially, if that person is your mate. Hence the saying “choose your mate carefully, 90% of your happiness or misery depends on it.” That is why before you get married the first thing that you should consider is how well do you know your mate? Yes, you know how she wants her eggs done but what about her beliefs, weaknesses, strengths, her resiliency? Are you aware of her issues and insecurities? Can you think of the worst thing that your partner is capable of? Can you tolerate if ever she does it? I truly believe that these are essential factors that you should consider before getting married.
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They say that love the second time around is sweeter and lovelier… or is it? In a marriage or in any relationship, fighting is inevitable and sometimes those fights can get out of hand and lovers break up but after a while- a week or two weeks the most they say their apologies and end up going back together again and after a month or two they fight again and end up going back together again, until it has become an unhealthy cycle in the relationship. All this to and fro in the relationship can take its toll, one partner may get use to all the separating and going back together that he or she will never take the relationship seriously again and if this happens inside the marriage then both of you are heading for a breakdown.
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How Do You Know You Are Ready For A Love Relationship?
Have ever wondered why your love relationships don’t lasts? Why it’s so complicated and so frustrating to work on? Yes, it has its good days but after a while the same pattern exists- it’s getting harder to compromise. It’s either you feel you’re not being given the attention that you truly deserve or you feel you are not being understood or accepted. It’s normal to have complications in relationships but when it’s starting to become a habit or a cycle that’s when it becomes a problem. That’s when you need to asses yourself if you are ready for a love relationship or not.
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Are You Ready For Marriage?
“When I grow up, I’m going find my Prince Charming and we are going to get married and I am going to wear this beautiful wedding gown with flowers all over and I’m going to live happily ever after” says my adorable, eight year old niece. Some women are no different from an eight year old when talking about getting married. They can be so caught up with the idea of getting hitched that they lose the essence of it all. With the rate of divorce increasing every year, it’s just sensible to find out if one is really up for it or not.
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Happy Spouse Happy House: The Perfect Partner
They say ninety percent of our happiness and misery depends upon the partner we choose in life. Finding the perfect partner is the most critical choice you have to make. It can either make or break you. It can either literally and figuratively save your life or end it. Your name and your legacy depends on it. Your legacy can include your children and your children’s children and if you chose the wrong person to raise them is like raising an army to shoot you in the heart with a bow and arrow. The cliché- the hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world applies to this scenario.
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The Worst Is Over: Signs You Are Ready To Move On
Heartaches can be a total backlog. It shrinks you internally and bombards every aspect of your self-esteem. It makes you curl up with your hand on your chest and cause you to cry yourself to sleep. When you are in the state of broken heart everything feels surreal and time stops. You are in temporary state of psychosis, you feel like you’re going to breakdown and shout in the middle of Times Square. You stare at the wall with blank affect and when people talks to you, you respond in a slow motion manner. The only advantage of suffering from heartache is losing those ten pounds you’ve trying to shed off for the past two years.
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