When it comes to sex, men usually focus on size and stamina. As a woman, I tell you that you are definitely focusing on the wrong things. How to please a woman sexually is all about focusing on the right things… and when I say, “right things” these are the things that are involved not during sex, but the “things” you do (or should do) before it- the foreplay. Studies shown that sixty-seven percent of women faked their orgasms because of lack of foreplay. Okay, so maybe you are not focusing on the “wrong things,” but rather you are just not clear about what the right things- or foreplay really is…
For a man, nothing can be more frustrating than having his woman reject his sexual needs. If you want to put an end with this cruel rejection, then you better wise-up! Sexually pleasing a woman requires little work, but the pay- off will be worth it. It will surely turn things around! So here are the ABCs of pleasing a woman
Affection- In pleasing a woman you have to begin outside the bedroom. Affection outside the bedroom is your perfect access to a steamy bedroom action. Pleasing a woman with affection includes lots of hugs, kisses, attention and helping with the dishes.
Do you want to have sex tonight? Then better make it as unforgettable and as wicked as possible. Remember, a wise and witty woman always makes her mark every time she makes love to her man. Keep in mind that great sex should not only spice up your love life, but it should also have a lingering effect on you and your lover. It should inspire him, empower you and make him love you more. If you want to make your mark in the bedroom, then surprise him with this hot intercourse positions that can definitely blow his mind away!
Face it, when it comes to giving a woman real orgasm is like being in the episode of CSI- elusive, mind-boggling and requires hard evidence. On the contrary, some cocky men brag that giving women real orgasm is like a walk in the park. But the truth of the matter is that, 75% of women cannot reach the climax and most likely, the same figure tends to fake their orgasm. Does this mean that women, in reality, are harder to please? Or maybe 75% of men cannot help but ejaculate within 3 minutes or less, leaving their woman high and dry without ever reaching the climax.
Being in a romantic relationship has its rewards. And one of these great rewards, other than having someone to love and be loved in return, is having the chance to experience the magic of sex. Sex may not be the only thing we think of in a relationship but it is something to consider. It may not be the only factor that can make the relationship meaningful but it can definitely add spice and passion to the affair. And of course, if we want to make love with our partner, we want it to be great and mind- blowing. We always want to make sure that our partner is satisfied and contented.
Lovers have different opinions about deep penetration intercourse position. Some women are uncomfortable with the idea but most women yearn for it when they make love. Women who love deep penetration say that it gives them the emotional rewarding sensation- a sense of satisfaction that goes beyond the lustful act of sex. They further added that the sexual connection between them and their lover is just out of this world, not to mention the mind-blowing orgasm it gives them. That is why the sex act that offers deep penetration is always the preferred and voted as the best intercourse position to do.
“The spirit is willing but the flesh is not.” If you are lazy, this can be your sentiment when it comes to sex. I believe that everybody wants great sex. If couples have a choice, they’ll do it as frequently as possible. But most of the time, stress, work and chores can make you lazy in bed. No matter how you want to enjoy each other’s sexuality, you just prefer to sleep off to regain your energy. The problem is, when you regularly postpone your sexual activity it can eventually takes it toll in your relationship. One healthy relationship advice that I am going to share with you is to work up some energy- efficient intercourse positions.
Pssst… do you want to know a sexy little secret? Do you know that having a steaming sex life doesn’t have to involve acrobatic and /or complicated acts? By just being imaginative, a cell phone can also be a tool for awakening your carnal pleasures. Yes, great sex and multiple orgasms is just a phone call away. Phone sex is not only good for long distance relationships; it can also do wonders if you want to improve your sex life. Doing these acts is an opportunity to let go of your sexual inhibitions. Mastering the art of the aural sex is just a matter of saying or hitting the right buttons.
Definitely, the answer is NO. You should never fake your orgasm. I understand that work+chores+kids= total physical weariness. You just want to crawl into bed and re-energize. But when your partner starts to grope you and begins to act like an animal in heat, then that’s where the dilemma comes in. You feel that faking your orgasm is the right thing to do because 1. You don't hurt his ego and 2. To get it over with. There are so many reasons why women fake their orgasms, the reasons varied as the number of women. Here are the common reasons why a woman does the sex-sham.
Every couple wants to have a fulfilling relationship. It’s a fact that one of the factors that helps achieve this is by having a satisfying physical intimacy and the best way of showing this intimacy is through sexual intercourse. Yes, this private intimacy which is granted only to couples is a great experience, but there is more to it than meets the eye. Remember, satisfaction is of great importance. Having a great sex life involves being considerate and sensitive to your partner’s physical and emotional needs. Pleasing your partner includes all the “before” and the “after” of the intercourse not just the act of penetration.