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Tags: relationships, sexuality, how to have a better sex life
 Every couple wants to have a fulfilling relationship. It’s a fact that one of the factors that helps achieve this is by having a satisfying physical intimacy and the best way of showing this intimacy is through sexual intercourse. Yes, this private intimacy which is granted only to couples is a great experience, but there is more to it than meets the eye.
Remember, satisfaction is of great importance. Having a great sex life involves being considerate and sensitive to your partner’s physical and emotional needs. Pleasing your partner includes all the “before” and the “after” of the intercourse not just the act of penetration. Of course, the “before” means foreplay. Foreplay heightens the passion in your sexual experience, giving you and your partner an incredible sexual encounter.
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This is a vital part of the intercourse, because foreplay is as important as “after play”. Needless to say, many people take this for granted. What they don’t realize is that, no matter how good the experience is, it can all be thrown to the wayside when you say or do the wrong things after it.
You could even end up spoiling the mood and hurt your lover’s ego. To the ladies, you have to be mindful that men can be ultra sensitive about sexual issues, especially when it is about his “performance level”. So here are some few post sex education tips on what not to say after intercourse.
First is, never say, “That was okay”-- When you are being asked about last night’s “Dr. Phil’s Show” then using the word “okay” and “nice” are appropriate but when it comes to your man’s sexual performance, using words such as “great”, “incredible” or “mind-blowing” can really create magic. Another that you should not do after coitus is “Getting up to finish folding the laundry”.
Doing this is like putting lovemaking in one category with the chores. This is “NOT” a good idea. Lingering and enjoying the moment after your special moment will create a beautiful bonding time between the two of you. “It’s alright, dear, everyone has an off-night”--You just gave him an off-night and a bruised ego after telling him that.
Always remember this post sex education advice. If your man performed less than expected, try to be more sympathetic and give a hug or a kiss. Make him feel better instead; putting him down more might affect his future sexual performance with you. “Is it alright if I finish off myself?” Honey, it is not okay! One of the many ways that can arouse a man is by also taking control, don’t ask permission—Just Do It! If you want to work your way to the peak, just go ahead and do it.
“Thank, God that was over!” This is a heart piercing phrase to a man; most likely this can ruin it all. Saying this can definitely make him turn his back on you. This only shows that while he was working his ass out, you on the other hand can’t wait until it’s over.
Sex should be something special and magical. It’s not a sport or a marathon. Your partner is not superman, so try to be a bit more understanding and mindful. Making love should be something that makes both of you feel good. It should be enjoyed and appreciated.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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