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Tags: relationships, sexuality, how to have multiple orgasms
 Definitely, the answer is NO. You should never fake your orgasm. I understand that work+chores+kids= total physical weariness. You just want to crawl into bed and re-energize. But when your partner starts to grope you and begins to act like an animal in heat, then that’s where the dilemma comes in.
You feel that faking your orgasm is the right thing to do because 1. You don't hurt his ego and 2. To get it over with. There are so many reasons why women fake their orgasms, the reasons varied as the number of women. Here are the common reasons why a woman does the sex-sham.
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The first two common reasons have been mentioned above. She doesn’t want to hurt her partner’s feelings and she is too tired and just want to get it over with-no more talks and issues. Another reason why she does the bogus orgasm is because she is not turned on by her partner.
I don’t mean to sound shallow but a woman would very much appreciate it if a man would try to freshen up a bit before making love. Another reason why she fakes her orgasm is because she is angry at her partner about something but doesn’t want to tell him about it.
Another perennial reason why she prefers to fake her orgasm is because she becomes too conscious that it is taking her too long to climax and her partner is getting exhausted. As you have noticed, all the reasons above are one-sided. The man doesn’t really know what’s going on and you are depriving yourself of the magic of orgasm.
You get no benefits from faking your orgasm. If you are exhausted but your partner wants to have some action, the best solution is to be honest. Being honest that you are too tired to climax will set aside any issues of him giving you an orgasm. Or who knows, he might compromise and gives you a massage and might put you in the mood for love.
And if you are mad about something, tell him so. You are only torturing yourself by carrying a grudge. Another best thing next to honesty is to give way. It’s perfectly normal that one of you gets off but never make this as a regular thing. Don’t hesitate to tell your guy “I’m not as hot as you now but go ahead; I love to watch you climax.” Who knows his sexual prowess might change yours.
And lastly, try to be charitable. If you’re not in the mood, tell him “I’ll get you off if you want”. The basic point here when you are faking your orgasm is you are only faking yourself. Give yourself the sexual-worth you deserve. Everybody woman deserves that magical and powerful climax.
And how to have multiple orgasms depends on your ability to open up with your partner. Take care of your communication and all the sexual glories will be yours to experience.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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