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Tags: relationships, sexuality, how to have satisfying sex
 Sex- probably one of the greatest experiences each couple can have. This is where you can truly feel each other’s body and soul. This is the moment where you surrender and go with the flow of your emotions until you explode and feel the earth move. Beyond doubt, a very breathtaking sensation.
But it doesn’t end there; the scope of sex does not only involve the foreplay and the coitus itself but also what is involved after intercourse. Your behavior after intercourse matters a lot. Look at it this way; have you ever watched a great movie with a great story line? The story line is so exhilarating that you cannot wait what happens next, but much to your dismay, the ending really, really sucks! So what do you answer after being asked what you think of the movie? Of course you will say, IT SUCKS! Somehow, you can say the same thing if that happens to your sex life.
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After giving love and receiving love, you expect a great finale. You have to understand that male and female respond differently after intercourse. As you all know, women love to talk, and this ardor for communication intensifies after intercourse. This goes without saying that after intercourse, your woman would converse about emotional- related stuff.
While on the other hand, men in general fantasize about the insides of the fridge and contemplate on what to eat after some bed- pumping action and/ or falls into deep sleep. For men, if you want to keep your sex-life harmonious, here are some few pointers on what to behave after intercourse.
(1) Fight the urge to sleep and listen to her, even just for a few minutes. Listening to her after intercourse will make her feel loved and not used. But don’t fret, you can actually speed this process up by showing encouraging gestures and agreeing to everything that she’s saying.
One guaranteed advice to fast forward the talking session is to suggest spooning and/ or cuddling to snore your way to dreamland. One trick here is by propping yourself up with your elbow. This will make you look interested even if you’re about to go into slumber. (2) Leaving your lover after sex may be the worst thing that you can do.
So, don’t do it if you want to avoid drama or complications in your relationship. For women, here are some few tips if you don’t want to scare your man off after intercourse. (1) Be considerate. Realize how exhausting it must be for him after giving you the “love” that you could ask for.
It’s best that you keep your testimonies concise and stories short. (2) Don’t bring out your issues about him or past arguments. Don’t torture your man, his body is tired enough, let him rest his mind. How to have satisfying sex depends on the overall situation- the foreplay, the sex- act itself and the behavior after intercourse.
So whatever you do, don’t rate your boyfriend or girlfriend according to effort, skill, endurance and creativity. Importantly, it’s vital that you keep in mind on how to have satisfying sex is to never ever compare your past or other sexual experiences to your lover. Make sure that everything that starts well ends well.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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