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Tags: relationships, sexuality, men want in bed
 Contrary to the common belief that men just want to get it on and move on, they want lovemaking to be satisfying and exciting, too. Yes, it may sound so demanding, but if you are one of those women who aim to please, then you’d be glad have stumbled upon this article. I have interviewed a couple of guys and asked them what they want in bed, and they gladly confessed, and really wished women did more of it in the sack.
So here are some of the things that men want in bed.
- Men want it when you tell them what to do.
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From all the men that I interviewed, this is the one that consistently come up. I realized just like most women, men aim to please their partner, too. As a matter of fact, men are dying for a little instruction. Aside that the fact that it makes them more motivated, they can get the job done easily. As one man says, “this is probably one of those rare instances when a man wants to be told what to do.”
- Hold-off the brazilian cut. Yes, you read it right. Now, you don’t have to go to all that trouble by shaving it clean down there. Though there are still men who want it bald down there, but most men want a little hair in the pubic area, they says its more feminine and sexy. But mind you, girls, don’t just let it grow wild to the thighs. Continue keeping it manageable by trimming it now and then.
- Talk dirty. Yes, guys may want you to be prim and proper outside the bedroom, but once inside, they want you to let lose and use a little dirty language. As you tell him what and how to do it, get a little filthy with your choice of words.
- Don’t spit it, swallow it. I’d love to elaborate on this, but my mouth is full at the moment.
- Do a solo act in front of him. “Nothing can be more sexy than a woman masturbating in front of me…” say one naughty guy. I know this can be dreadful when you think about it, but don’t be. Your guy would love to watch it. Aside from giving him the visual pleasure, it also offers him visual instruction to go along with telling the man what to do it bed.
- Foreplay. Most girls assume that men see foreplay as a total waste of time, but now, I am here to inform you that guys love the pre- sexual acts, too. Their penis is his main erogenous zone, but they love it when you do some necking and back- rubbing, too. Foreplay, intensifies the lovemaking and gives you and you man more time to connect and pleasure each other.
- Be open to suggestions. Boys are curious by nature; they always want to try something different. So, when your partner suggests something new in your sex act, humor him instead of immediately dismissing him. This doesn’t mean that you should force yourself going anal when you totally hate it, but if he’s interested with some dice and some role playing, don’t automatically rebuff the idea. Who knows? You might like it, too.
- Go wild. What men want in bed is a woman who is confident enough not to hold back her urges. A woman who would get on top of his man and ride him like crazy, a woman who is not afraid to be rough. For them, this is their definition of one hot woman.
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The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Powerful Secrets of Seduction. Learn how you can seduce any man that you fancy with so much ease and subtlety.
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