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Tags: relationships, singles, flirting tips
 Before you go out of the house, you fix your hair, put on your make-up, spray some sweet smelling perfume… then go back in the mirror again and double check your make up and your hair. You need perfection before going out of the house. Who knows? You might run into someone you like.
And you can’t help but flirt, flirt, flirt and flirt some more. Before we go into the details of flirting tips it is a must that you must be striking. This doesn’t mean you have to look like Angelina Jolie. Making sure you are well groomed is enough. Before you enter the doors of flirting there are a few requirements- your hair must be in place, your make- up in not smudged and your clothes well kept and most of all you must have the confidence.
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You must have the guts to flirt. If you have the above requirements then we will go to out lesson. Flirting is all about subtly. Flirting is a form of subliminal seduction. You must know how to make the most out of your materials and use it properly in flirting.
When I say materials- I mean your hair, your eyes, your face, your lips, your mouth, and everything under the neck. For girls, since men are creatures with less observation skills, you might tone up you flirting innuendos. Use your eyes and make eye contact, 5 seconds is enough. Longer than that and you might drive him away for staring.
Then causally flash a friendly, sincere smile and say “hi!” This is giving an obvious message that you are interested and you want to get to know him more. Once you have given the message clearly, feel good about yourself. Put on your confident self. Confident people leave a lasting charismatic effect on the people they are with.
Once you got your preys attention, let the conversation flow smoothly. Say something like how cool his cellphone is or any gadgets he is carrying- try to expound on that. This implies that you pay attention to him and you notice him. If you are with a group of friends, give space for yourself.
Men are frightened with rejection and they will never risk being rejected in front of your friends. Separate yourself for a while to become more approachable to your target. When you talk, talk clearly. Check the tone and tremble of your voice. Don’t let your voice show you’re nervous and you lack self confidence.
Remember to tone down the “I, Me and Myself” conversations. Ask him about himself and his interests. Men like it if girls pay attention to the “stuff” they like. And they usually avoid girls who monopolize the conversation about herself. And the best and most significant flirting tip is to be yourself.
It’s pointless to pretend to be somebody you are not. And besides, do you really need someone who doesn’t like you for who you are? Flirting is for people who are proud of who they are. If it is successful, it preludes romantic commitment or long term relationships. It’s just wise to come clean and be true to yourself.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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