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Tags: relationships, singles, how to find your perfect match
 There was a point in my life when I almost gave- up finding "the one." I told myself that I’d rather live alone than be with someone that I cannot live with. Settling was, is and always will be out of the question for me. I was not looking for the “perfect guy,” all that I was looking for was the perfect match. I wanted someone whom I can jive with and have decent conversation with. I needed someone that is compatible with me. I know that compatibility is not the “end all and be all” in a relationship, but some how, having the same wave length and being in the right frequency makes the relationship run smoothly.
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And the moment I knew the factors that help decipher my perfect match, that’s when I knew that Andy, the man I am living with for nearly ten years now was it.
I strongly believe that the perfect match for each woman exists. All you have to do is to know these factors that make you decipher your perfect match… and this is what I am going to share with you today…
How to find your perfect match is a matter of considering these factors:
- Spontaneity. This refers to your love personality when you are attracted to someone. Do you instantly give out all affection no matter how briefly you know the person you are attracted to? Or do you analyze your feelings first and take your time knowing the before being demonstrative about your emotions?
- Inner Vitality. How do you deal with your day? Do you face it with full vitality and pursue it with all determination and strength…or do you take it easy and derive pleasure in taking the moment and smelling the roses?
- Beliefs. Your belief is all about your perception.
People differ on how they see and interpret things and situations that come their way…so do you see the glass half empty or half full?
- Consistency. Are you the type of person who loves going home to the same familiar surrounding everyday and see yourself growing old and having grand children in that same old surrounding you grew- up in, or do you prefer to have variety and diversity in life?
- Adaptability. How do you handle your daily routine? Are you totally alright about how things are done as long as the results satisfy you? Or do you have certain levels of perfectionism and believe that certain things should be done in a certain way and a break in this routine gives you anxiety attacks.
- Negotiating Technique. Are you the kind of person who can compromise or the type of person who cannot?
- Temperament. How dramatic are you when it comes to your temper? Are you loud and intense or calm and collected?
- Personal Fostering. How do you deal with yourself when you are having relationship trouble? Do you prefer to be surrounded with friends and family and pour out your anxiety or you prefer the solitude of being alone?
These are the factors that define your perfect match. The similarities and differences in certain areas mentioned above can help develop and nurture a relationship. Know which aspect you should have similarities in and which aspect you should differ, the e-book, “Wanted: Mr. Right” can give you all the information your need. Check- out the e-book and find out who your perfect match is!
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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