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Tags: relationships, singles, attracting men
 You had it with egoistic boys and their big toys. You want to step up and begin attracting men with substance. You’re tired with putting up with immature boys and their huge ego. You’ve been around, you know how the world works but you wonder why you keep on attracting these one-dimensional males.
Your relationship history reveals that being with shallow boys results in superficial companionship. And you had it with superficial relationships. It has no direction, no focus, no future, a total waste of time and energy. What you need now is a meaningful relationship with someone and that someone should have the same need for noteworthy relationship.
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You want your next relationship to be based on care, love and compassion and of mental stimulation and emotional connection. Not a relationship that is purely based on lust, loneliness, fear, boredom and material pampering. It’s high time for you to have a genuine relationship. Your soul yearns for a deep and evocative affair.
In order to get hold of this longing you need to be with the right person, you need to attract men with substance. Emotionally and mentally mature males. Gentlemen with high emotional quotient score. Attracting men with substance is different from attracting mediocre boys- it’s much easier than you think.
The first rule in attracting men with substance is to be friendly not flirty. Wear that genuine smile of yours. Emotionally mature gentlemen are attracted to women with light and happy disposition. Bring out an aura of a soft afternoon breeze and warm sunlight. Exude a light and comfortable ambiance wherever you go.
Exuding this kind of atmosphere portrays you know how to handle life. A well-knowing man is aware that life can be tough sometimes and meeting a woman who seems unaffected by the daily stresses and pressures can be quite attractive. In attracting men with high quotient score, less is always more.
Less make up, less issues. This is not about stereotyping but women who wears their skin naturally with simple and less make up attracts mentally and emotionally established males compared to women who wears thick and excessive make up. They are more attracted to women who are very natural on the way they present themselves, women who are very comfortable with their own skin.
Women with the x factor, so they say. Highly evolved males reached the status their in because they have been around. They know what matters and what matters to them is what you are inside. In attracting men with substance, you should take hold of your life. Be independent. Nurture yourself from the inside.
Get organize and manage your time wisely. You don’t have to be the most successful person but you should be the boss of your life. In simple words- take care of yourself. Cultivate your mind. Be aware of what’s going on inside and outside of yourself. With independence you become confident and by nurturing yourself you become sensitive and by cultivating your mind you become brilliant.
Being confident, sensitive and brilliant are the characteristics that decent, matured gentlemen find irresistible. More importantly, in attracting men with substance, be yourself. The least you want is to be liked and loved by being someone you’re not. The point here is, in attracting men with substance you should also become a woman of substance.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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