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Tags: relationships, singles, bad boy
 We see them every where and they don’t fail to make our heads turn. The bad boy image, those rugged yet sexy look, the arrogance and the elusiveness- makes girls swoon. Not just one category of women- almost majority of women- the young and the not so young, single or married all are mesmerized with the undomesticated guy.
How can we not be attracted to the bad boy image, when we grew up with them in the movies and televisions? John Wayne, Clint Eastwood, Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, Colin Farrel and just recently in the movie “Twilight” where Robin Pattinson played a vampire with a bad male image but with a yielding heart for her love interest.
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The movie was a hit because Bela was able to tame the heart of a bad boy vampire. It was a movie that triggers every woman’s emotion. One of the reasons why women are attracted to the rugged image is because it exudes an untamed masculinity and confidence, this kind of confidence is the trait women finds irresistible.
The thought of taming an untamed heart seems romantic and having a man who has tough confidence makes a lady feel fragile and delicate. If men find femininity attractive that’s the same reason why women are drawn to undomesticated males, the masculinity is hard to disregard. Women want men who can take the lead and will be able to defy everything just to be with them, and the bad boy image exudes that kind of energy.
Ladies are drawn to men who radiate that intimidating presence, a presence that put off others except her. Women thrive for exclusivity and they believe they can have that with a bad boy kinda guy. For women, bad boy image means being hard and tough outside but sweet and vulnerable inside.
Not the typical bad boy who is cocky and overly arrogant, is innately selfish and doesn’t give a damn about her girl, inconsiderate and has the worst temper ever, and treats woman badly and uses her for sex alone. Men with this kind of approach are not the bad boy type they just have a bad soul.
So if you’re a guy who wants to be one of those guys that ladies run after, you got to have the “take it or leave it” attitude- the one that says this is me if you can’t take it you can go right ahead the front door. Be mysterious- women can’t get enough of men with an air of mystery in them, so put on that poker face.
One of the main characters that women can’t get enough of is having a man that can stand his ground and will not take her girlie thing. If she tries to play one of her games, tell her to grow up. But take care of your lady in bed. In sex, they have no inhibitions; they tell women what they like and what they don’t like in bed but they listen to them intently too.
Remember, women want what they cannot have. So stop tailing your girl everywhere and give her time to miss you. Never ever loose that confidence, bad boy image is all about confidence and sincerity. If they don’t like what they are seeing, they won’t hesitate to turn their backs. So woman, you better have what it takes if you want this type for a guy.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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