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Tags: relationships, singles, how to get your man to commit
 For a single lady who is in a relationship for a long time, things can be totally frustrating. You want to tell your partner on his face to get down on his knees and marry you, but of course you can’t do that to a man.
Here’s how to get your man to commit:
- To cure his commitment phobia, you need to make him feel that he can tell you anything without the risk of getting criticized and laughed at. Men need to feel that they are accepted no matter what. Men seek comfort, and when he sees that he can be comfortable with you in all aspect, he’s yours forever.
- You can cure his commitment phobia if he sees that you love him for “him” not his money, not his car, not his house, not his degree.
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Show him that you are interested in him by knowing his likes and dislikes, his passion and his inspiration.
- You can cure his commitment phobia if he sees you as a sincere person. Ask any guy around and they will tell you that what they don’t like most are women who pretend to be somebody they are not. If they find out that you have been faking who you really are, you make them question your intentions in the relationship.
- You can cure his commitment phobia if you made it clear to him that he can keep his freedom, (in a certain degree, of course). Freedom equates masculinity for a man.
And masculinity is everything to a man. Most of them believe that once they are committed, they will lose their freedom/ masculinity.
- You can cure his commitment phobia if you don’t let him do and spend so much for you. If the balance becomes way off, he will one day wake up and ask himself, “What am I getting into?” and this is not good for you. Try to be more considerate and sensitive.
- Resorting to jealousy tactics to make him commit will not cure his commitment phobia. For men, loyalty is everything. They ask nothing more than a woman’s loyalty. And when you let him question your loyalty, you’re back to zero.
- Insist on monogamy. Some women may be too scared to demand monogamy from their man, especially in the early part of the relationship, but a woman who demands monogamy is a woman with good standards… and that is always a “plus points” for men.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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