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Tags: relationships, singles, keep your man interested
 Since the dawn of time, a single woman has been taught to never ever pursue a man. To wait for a guy to make his move- to approach her, to ask her out for a dinner, to commit to her, to ask her hand in marriage. Being pursued has its perks- the wooing, and the flowers, the jewelries, the sweet nothings, the dates, the sweet talk. Honestly, the pursuing stuff is fun and all, but interpreting his intentions in pursuing is not- is he playing it serious, or is he just playing around? How can a single woman tell if a man is pursuing her to be his life time partner or his bed partner?
No self- respecting, single woman would ever want to be a guy’s “bed partner” for life.
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It is in a woman’s nature to evolve- from single, to girlfriend, to fiancé, to wife, and then to mother… Although it is relatively easy for a single lady to tell her man that she wants to move from casual dating to a serious, committed relationship, but for a single woman who is in a serious, committed relationship to tell her partner that she wants a matrimonial relationship can be quite risky. She can either risk losing years of physical, mental and emotional attachment to her guy or be in a limbo and tag along until he will have an epiphany and propose to her. But the truth is… it’s NOT the guy who determines whether a woman is a “bed partner” or a life time partner- it us, women! When a man approaches us, we’re the one with total control over the situation.
Every word we say, every move we make, every signal we show to a guy, will help him decide whether he should try to play with us, takes us seriously or to move on to the next woman. Yes, we have the control over our yearnings.
You have the control to keep your man interested in marriage and family. If you want to be a keeper and not somebody’s bed partner, then take note of a guy’s point of view of a marrying type.
• A keeper is a single lady who commands respects, while a woman who lets a guy get away with disrespecting her is a not.
• If you know how to dress sexy without being trashy then you’re a keeper.
• If won’t allow a guy you hardly know feel all over you body in the dance floor or anywhere else, then you’re a keeper; but if you’re a woman who drops it life its hot and make Britney Spears blush with your moves, then you’re a perfect bed partner.
• If you accept a man’s number but doesn’t give him yours, then you’re worth keeping; but if you hand out your cell phone number, home number, office number, and e-mail address then you’re not.
• If you’re willing and can make a respectable conversation to a man and his mother, then you’re worth keeping, but of you laugh at the thought of meeting his mother then you’re not.
• If you can adapt to any situation thrown at you, then you’re worth keeping.
• If you’re a single woman who smiles and knows how to take good care of herself, then you’re a keeper.
• If you’re a single woman who knows how to appreciate a man’s effort, then you’re worth keeping.
• If you’re a woman who lives by the creed of loyalty, then you’re every man’s dream girl.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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