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Tags: relationships, singles, the art of flirting
 In a town where everybody is dying to couple up, sometimes it’s better to be out of the relationship- you have time to your laundry, you have the freedom to play your favorite bad music very loudly, but the best part of being out of the relationship is having plenty of time to catch- up with your friends and have lots of fun! Living a single life truly has its own perks, and flirting is one of them. Mastering the art of flirting and have those men swarm over you can be quite a thrilling experience, especially if you had a terrible break- up from your previous relationship. Believe me, nothing can cheer- up a broken- hearted girl more than a bunch of men ogling over her. But when you flirt, you have to be careful not to send the wrong signals.
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You don’t want to come off as desperate, cheap or sleazy. To have a success in flirting you have to remember these flirting tips.
- Bash the bashful approach. Using the “shy-type” technique is cute when you are seventeen years old or younger, but when you are an adult, you can come off as insecure and unsure. Not a pretty image to project at all. Don’t be afraid to acknowledge attention.
- Turn that frown upside down. One of the effective tools in flirting is smiling. Nobody can resist a positive image. A reminder, if you smile, smile with authenticity, because when you do it with sincerity, your eyes smiles, too, and it can brighten anyone’s mood at anytime.
- Walk the walk.
When it comes to flirting, posture is everything. No matter how pretty you are or how beautiful your dress is, if you enter the room like a turtle, you can’t turn heads. In flirting, presence is everything. So, have that back and shoulders straight, and your chin up, show- off that beautiful face of yours. Walk with grace, don’t walk like a marching cadet. - Loosen up. Don’t be so uptight. Men will be more likely to approach you when you are relaxed.
- Mind your body language. Be sure to project a friendly body language, no arms crossed or looking away. An unfriendly body language can drive men away.
- Open those eyes. Eye contact can make you stand- out from the crowd. Eye contact should be done with subtlety. It should be no less than four seconds and not more than eight seconds. After those magical “seconds” look down and steal glances. The worst thing that you can do is to stare him down dead, so be a little mindful. And be sure to flash a smile when you make your contact.
- The mane can be the main. Flipping your hair over your shoulder never fails to get a guy’s attention. Maximize those locks in your flirting act. Run your fingers through it, or twirl it. Do it sparingly and with timing, you don’t want him to think that you have dandruff problems.
- Natural is always beautiful. Be yourself. Being natural is sexy and attractive. A phony character stinks like a dead rat.
You have to keep in mind that the most important flirting component is CONFIDENCE. You got to learn to like and love yourself. You got to appreciate your own uniqueness, because if you like the way you are, people will like you for who you are.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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