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Tags: relationships, singles, turns men off
Okay, now you are fed up with him. But you don’t have the heart to break it off. You’re just not the confronting type. So, if you want to lose a man and drive him away all you have to do is do what turns men off or in the contrary if you want to keep him then all you have to do is to avoid the things that turns men off- whatever serves your purpose.
What are the things that turn men off, anyway? One major act that turns men off is to nag, nag, nag and nag again. No man in this world would ever say they love to be nagged. Nagging has been an issue for the male species with regards to females; it even drives them to womanize or even ask for a divorce.
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 So, if you want to loose your man in less than a month- nag him everyday. It’s a sure-fire way to make him head off the front door. Another attitude that turns men off is being a prima donna, high- maintenanced and annoyingly needy woman. Constantly demanding for his time, money and effort can exhaust any man in no time.
Lashing out every moment he is with his friends will definitely give him a headache. Frequently calling his whereabouts and who he’s with can make him feel suffocated. Complaining about every little thing with irritating shrieks like “eeewww!” “eeekkk! “yuckkyyy!” can make his eyebrow cringe in annoyance. Crying out to him to do every minor task will give him a major migraine.
One more thing that turns men off is being a sloppy and untidy human being. If you are living in together, nothing can drive a man mad than your underwear hanging everywhere in the bathroom and filling the bathroom cabinet with all your girlie stuff. And if you want to traumatize him and have him running out the front door- try leaving your used tampons or sanitary pads in the most visible area of your house.
And if you want a sexual turn off try kissing and snuggling after not brushing your teeth and taking a bath for two days will definitely repulse him. Another deed that turns men off is being a slob in the dinner table especially if his friends are around. Embarrassing him in front of friends and office mates will have him packing his things out from your place.
Wearing excessive make up and over doing your hairdo or just obsessing about your looks is a definite turn off for men. Since boys love natural, simple, clean looking face for women, being excessively cosmetized will make him avoid you. Persistently asking for validation of how you look can tire every man in a day, so if you keep on doing that for the next three days, you’ll be sure to lose him.
And of course what turns men off most is a woman who is a player. Flirt with his friends and buddies and he will break up with you in an instant. So in summary, what turns men off is a nagging, prima donna slob with too much make up who flirts with every guy she meets.
In no time he will beg you for a break up- and he will thank you and appreciate you forever for releasing him. Breaking up has never felt so selfless and good. Now, isn’t that a perfect way to end a relationship, no drama and no complications.
About the author
The author of this article, Ruth Purple, is a successful Relationship Coach who has been helping and coaching individuals and couples for many years. Get your copy of Ruth's ebook The Male Magnet Formula. Discover how to attract men like a magnet.
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